07/04/2024
🚨 If your partner is yelling, hitting you, or throwing things at you, you are NOT overreacting if you leave them.
A client came to me with a sticky situation that some of you might be facing.
She told me her partner was abusive to her.
They used to argue, but it’s gotten more intense recently.
He was yelling, throwing things, and getting physical with her.
The worst part? The kids were getting involved and witnessing everything.
She was obviously scared and wanted to protect her kids and herself.
If this is you, here are 3 things you should consider doing:
1️⃣ Stay Calm: Do not engage in the yelling or physical altercations as things can get very dangerous.
2️⃣ Collect Evidence: If you can, videotape the situation. If you can't, after the incident occurs, note down what happened, what was said, the time it occurred, and who was there. If there are injuries, take photos of those injuries right away, making sure to date and timestamp them.
3️⃣ Plan Your Escape: Collect your belongings in a bag, including important documents, clothes, etc., and find a place where you can go to find safety.
If you're experiencing abuse, reach out to a friend, a family member, or a domestic abuse hotline. If something is very serious, you always have the ability to call the police right away to make sure they come and help you.
⚠️ Disclaimer: Our posts are provided for informational purposes only and should NOT be construed as legal advice. Seek professional advice tailored to your specific circumstances.