17/06/2026
LEGAL TIP: How to Identify Possible Parental Alienation
Following a separation or divorce, children should generally be encouraged to maintain a healthy relationship with both parents. When one parent deliberately undermines that relationship, it may amount to parental alienation.
Some warning signs include:
✔ The child suddenly refuses contact with a parent without a clear reason.
✔ The child repeats adult language or allegations that appear beyond their age and understanding.
✔ One parent consistently interferes with contact arrangements or cancels visits without justification.
✔ The child expresses extreme hostility towards one parent while showing no ambivalence or mixed feelings.
✔ Important information regarding the child's schooling, health or activities is deliberately withheld from the other parent.
✔ The child is made to feel guilty for enjoying time with the other parent.
✔ The child appears to have adopted the views or grievances of one parent as their own.
Parental alienation can have serious emotional consequences for children and may be taken into account by the courts when determining what is in the child's best interests.
If you suspect that parental alienation is taking place, keep detailed records and seek legal advice as early as possible.
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