Jacobson, Chmelir & Ferwerda

05/29/2026

Facing divorce? These seven steps can help you stabilize finances and plan for the future — from taking an inventory to updating estate documents and assessing housing and retirement choices.

Separating finances after divorce

05/27/2026

Many parents confuse the concept of co-parenting with the legal reality of joint custody. Co-parenting is the daily teamwork required to raise your children, but joint custody is the strict court order that dictates your legal decision-making power. Do not leave your parental rights to chance. Read our guide on how family courts define these boundaries and contact our firm today.

Explore the essentials of law about co-parenting, from different types and legal requirements to how agreements can be updated. Dive into a complete guide.

05/23/2026

Stepparent adoption is both a legal process and an important family decision that can create lasting legal rights and responsibilities. Learn more about the steps involved and what families can expect during the adoption process.

A stepparent must get consent from both biological parents, submit a petition to the court, attend hearings, and take other steps to adopt their stepchild.

05/22/2026

Dividing a 401(k) in divorce usually requires a QDRO to transfer benefits tax‑free — QDROs, pension valuation, and beneficiary updates are technical and state‑specific; consult a divorce attorney and financial expert before agreeing to any split. https://www.investopedia.com/divorce-and-401-k-5441868

05/20/2026

Home equity is often one of the largest assets divided during a divorce. Learn more about how courts may approach property division, home valuation, and equity distribution in divorce cases.

Home equity is usually split between the two separating parties in a divorce. Learn about your options for splitting equity, plus how local laws factor in.

05/16/2026

The "Right of First Refusal" sounds like a great way to maximize time with your kids, until your ex uses it to micromanage your personal life. If you are dealing with a high-conflict co-parent, this popular custody clause might actually backfire. Read the pros and cons, and contact our firm to draft a parenting plan that protects your peace.

Learn more about right of first refusal and how it commonly works in child custody agreements.

05/15/2026

Inherited property is often considered separate property in divorce, but commingling assets or using marital funds can complicate matters. Understanding these rules may help protect your financial interests. Explore how inheritance is handled during divorce.

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05/13/2026

Divorcing after 50 can sharply reduce household income — review retirement accounts, QDRO options, and health‑insurance arrangements before agreeing to settlements, and consult a divorce attorney to coordinate tax, pension, and property decisions. https://www.investopedia.com/personal-finance/mistakes-avoid-when-divorcing-over-50/

05/09/2026

Did you get married without a prenup? It’s not too late to protect your assets. A postnuptial agreement can secure your finances, but they are heavily scrutinized by judges and require expert drafting to be legally enforceable. Let our attorneys help you get it right.

More couples are choosing to use prenups and postnups to protect their assets before or after marriage. Here’s what you should know about these spousal agreements.

05/08/2026

If you were married at least 10 years, are unmarried and age 62+, you may be eligible to claim Social Security on an ex‑spouse’s record (up to 50% of their benefit) without reducing their payment; apply online or at your local SSA office.

Learn how divorced spouse Social Security benefits work, including eligibility, how much you can receive, and the steps to claim benefits based on an ex-spouse’s record.

05/06/2026

Military divorce can involve unique legal issues related to benefits, housing, retirement pay, and family support. Learn more about the rights and protections available to divorced military spouses.

Learn about your rights and unique legal issues for divorced spouses due to military service. Here are some items to consider as you move through this process.