Jennifer Yates, Esq

10/16/2024

Divorce judgment? ✅ But hold up—there’s still work to do!

Have you tackled post-judgment items like QDROs (Qualified Domestic Relations Orders) to divide retirement accounts, or updated your beneficiaries?

These details can make all the difference in securing your financial future. Don’t let them slip through the cracks!

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09/25/2024

What do you do whenever someone doesn’t fully disclose assets in a divorce? Sometimes we can get that information from other sources or a financial background check. 🕵️‍♀️ It is always important to properly disclose all assets and debts so there are no issues later.

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09/22/2024

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Get ready for a surprising twist in the world of weddings! A new study challenges the idea that spending a lot on weddings leads to stronger relationships. Instead, it suggests that couples who keep things practical might actually fare better in the long run. Let's dive into this unexpected discover...

07/10/2024

You got the Petition filed with the court, now what?

Serving divorce papers to your ex-spouse can be challenging but is a crucial step. Along with the filed forms you received from the court (Petition, Summons, and Declaration under UCCJEA if there are kids), make sure you also include a blank Response and Request for Dissolution/Legal Separation (FL-120) and a blank Declaration under UCCJEA (FL-105) if you have kids.

Someone over 18 (not you) must personally serve them the documents. You can use the Sheriff’s Civil Department or a private process server. If you and your ex are on friendly terms, they can also accept the documents by mail. Just be sure they sign the Notice and Acknowledgement of Receipt (FL-117).

Finally, and I cannot stress this enough, please make sure you file the Proof of Service of Summons (FL-115) so the court knows that you have served your ex!

Remember, stay calm, and follow the legal process to move your case along.

06/07/2024

Building Resilience Through Adversity

Divorce can be a challenging transition for kids, and it also offers a unique opportunity for growth and resilience.
In today’s Adversity to Growth: Children’s Experience of Family Transitions with Alyson Jones, MA, and Simmi Brar, JD, we received some excellent information about the development and growth of children through a transition such as divorce.

How the conflict is managed, rather than whether it occurs, determines the child’s adjustment and whether the conflict is destructive.

Let's support our kids through these transitions and watch them grow stronger and more resilient.

06/06/2024

The Intersection of Reason and Passion in Law

Aristotle’s wisdom reminds us that the law strives for reason and objectivity. Yet, as Robert E. Emery, PhD, highlighted during yesterday’s Advanced Challenges in Family Mediation session at , family law navigates the complexities of human emotions and relationships, balancing reason with passion.

06/05/2024

Navigating a divorce while maintaining work performance is challenging. This insightful article from The Muse offers practical advice on handling this difficult time. It covers taking strategic time off, focusing on work, communicating with your boss, and practicing self-care. Additionally, it suggests using the experience as an opportunity for professional growth and change. Read the full article at the link below.



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Divorce is hard. Keeping up with work during a tough personal time is even harder. But this guide can help.

05/31/2024

Life is unpredictable, and sometimes, starting over can be the best decision you make. Embrace new beginnings and cherish the strength it takes to seek happiness. 💔✨