04/08/2026
National Siblings Day is April 10, and a lot of us in Tahlequah post old photos and funny stories.
Behind the jokes, there’s a serious question for parents: if something happened to you, which sibling—or which person—would actually step in for your kids?
Sometimes the person you love hanging out with isn’t the same person you’d trust with late‑night homework, medical decisions, or money.
Today, take a second to think about:
Who really knows your kids and your values.
Who could handle the responsibility without burning out.
How you’d feel if a judge had to guess.
In my office, we walk through these questions in plain language and help you put the answer in writing.