Chrissy V - Real Estate Investor

11/26/2025

There were moments when I wasn’t sure this day would ever come — but today was appraisal day for a boutique hotel I designed and decorated.

It took a full team effort and the help of volunteers to pull everything together, and I’m beyond grateful.

A huge milestone in the books!

10/17/2025

"If you want people to care about your business, show them first that you care about them as people.”

This is true on so many levels. I’ve had some bad experiences where I was on the receiving end of not being valued, and it left a lasting impression. I’ve also had really good experiences where it was clear that people genuinely cared — and the difference was night and day.

At the end of the day, business isn’t just about numbers—it’s about relationships.

If you want to genuinely engage people and encourage them to care about your business, it’s essential to demonstrate that you value them as individuals first. Take the time to understand their needs, listen to their concerns, and show empathy in your interactions. By establishing a personal connec...

08/07/2025

🔗 Connecting Capital with Opportunity — The Right Way

One of the most meaningful roles I play in the real estate space is connecting private lenders with qualified borrowers working on high-impact projects — from boutique hospitality to multifamily projects.

These are not random introductions. I connect people I’ve gotten to know through my work — operators and lenders who value transparency, responsibility, and long-term relationships.

👉 I don’t give investment advice. I don’t vet these deals. But I do believe in helping the right people find each other when the timing aligns.

Relationships still drive this business. And I’m proud to create space for trusted conversations that can lead to strong partnerships.

Disclaimer: I do not sell securities, offer investment advice, or guarantee returns. All opportunities are shared for informational and networking purposes only.

08/02/2025

You can't delete, remove, or erase God's plan.

People can unfollow you, block you, lie on you, or walk away from you... but what God has ordained still stands.

When it’s His plan, it doesn’t expire.
It doesn’t get erased.
And it doesn’t need anyone’s approval.

Stay the course. What’s for you is still for you. 🙌

07/24/2025

📊 Hospitality Is Gaining Economic Ground in 2025

The numbers are in—and they’re strong:
✔️ Restaurant sales projected to exceed $1.1 trillion
✔️ Hotel guest spending reaching record highs
✔️ Short-term rentals and cruise demand above pre-2020 levels
✔️ Group & business travel is fueling RevPAR growth

The industry is not just recovering—it's evolving, with boutique stays, STRs, and niche hospitality brands taking the spotlight.

Through my work, I’m fortunate to collaborate with strong hospitality operators across the country—visionaries already active in this space.

🔍 If you're someone aligned with capital strategy and looking to stay informed about where the momentum is, I’d love to connect.

💬 I am not offering any investments or securities—simply fostering conversations and connecting aligned professionals.

📌 Disclaimer: This content is for networking and informational purposes only. It is not an offer to buy or sell any securities, nor should it be construed as financial or investment advice.

📥 Let’s start a conversation—DMs are open.

07/23/2025

To my design friends... here's a reminder that YOU matter!!

07/23/2025

🎯 Business Gaslighting & Triangulation: The Silent Reputation Killer

Let’s talk about something not enough people are willing to say out loud:

💬 Sometimes in business, when a partnership starts to unravel or power dynamics shift, one person may begin quietly influencing others to ignore or avoid you.

Not with direct attacks—but with whispers, strategic silence, and subtle digs.

This tactic has a name:

✅ Triangulation – where someone brings others into a conflict or agenda to isolate you.
✅ Gaslighting – making you appear unstable or untrustworthy to others by distorting facts.
✅ Ostracism – when you're intentionally excluded from communication, meetings, or group decisions.

🚫 These are not just passive behaviors. They are strategic moves to erase your credibility—especially damaging when you've built something with your own sweat and vision.

💡 Here’s the truth: If someone has to make others ignore your voice instead of confronting you directly, that’s a loud sign about their leadership—not yours.

📢 You don’t need to defend your value to people committed to misunderstanding it. Stay focused. Stay visible. Document everything. And never let silence rewrite your story.

07/21/2025

🖤 Real Talk:

You feel like quitting? I get it. It’s tough. Heavy.
But don’t quit.

Say it out loud:
“I’m struggling.”
“I’m tired.”
“I don’t know what to do.”

Now say this:
“I’m not giving up.”

There’s always a way forward.
You might have to pivot, pause, cry it out, or ask for help — but quitting is not your ending.

You’re still in the fight. Keep going. 🖤

07/19/2025

There are two sides to every coin… and every story.

Sometimes people misunderstand you.
Sometimes they only tell their version.
But you don’t have to defend what’s real. You just have to keep showing up in truth.

I’ve learned that you can pursue peace and stand firm for what matters.

You can work toward resolution without compromising your integrity.

To anyone walking through a tough season — stay rooted.
Stay kind.
Stay strong.

You don’t have to match the energy around you. Just keep honoring what’s inside you.

Because the fire that refines you will never consume you.

07/07/2025

💡 Retirement money doesn’t have to stay in the stock market!

A lot of people don’t realize their IRA can invest in real estate, private notes, or lend money through a Self-Directed IRA (SDIRA). It’s a smart way to diversify — but you have to follow the IRS rules.

✅ The transaction must go through your IRA custodian.
✅ You can’t lend to yourself, your kids, or your parents.
✅ The interest payments go back to your IRA — so your retirement keeps growing.
✅ Do your homework — know who you’re lending to and watch for UBIT taxes.

Financial education is the first step! 📚

I share what I learn so more people can grow their retirement savings wisely.

👉 This is educational only — not financial advice.

If you’d like more info, I’m happy to point you to some great SDIRA resources!