Atticus Family Law

Atticus Family Law With 20+ yrs experience dedicated to family law, we secure fair outcomes for bright futures. We secure fair outcomes for brighter futures.

With over 20 years of experience devoted specifically to family law in Minnesota and Wisconsin, we know the ins and outs of the system. The Atticus Family Law team stays up to date with changes in statutes and rulings, and pours over the details of your case with our well-trained eyes. We understand that clients are more than cases – they’re human beings, oftentimes struggling to remain the best p

arents during difficult life transitions. Through our 360-degree commitment, we help clients who so desire, ensure that financial planning, counseling, tax concerns, and other needs are met, including complimentary client coaching services. Are you ready for a fresh start? Primary areas of practice:
Divorce | Family Law | Divorce with Children
Child Custody | Property Division | Spousal Maintenance

Divorce does not require choosing teams.When a marriage ends, the split often reaches beyond two people.In-laws pull awa...
09/03/2026

Divorce does not require choosing teams.

When a marriage ends, the split often reaches beyond two people.

In-laws pull away.

Friends stop calling.

Group chats go quiet.

You might feel pressure to defend yourself, explain every detail, or persuade people to take your side.

Pause before you respond.

No single response fits every relationship. Tara, client coach at Attekus Family Law, suggests three options:

🗣️ Have a one-on-one conversation

Explain where you stand and what you want as you move forward.

Ask where the other person stands.

Look for one point of agreement.

🚪 Step back from the relationship

Share less.

Keep divorce details out of your conversations.

Space often prevents more conflict and gives you time to assess the relationship.

✋ Let the relationship go

Some people choose a side and refuse to listen.

If each exchange brings blame or pressure, ending contact might serve you better than another debate.

Try this script:

“I care about our relationship, and I do not want you in the middle. My goal is to move forward with respect. I’m willing to talk about our relationship, but I won’t discuss details of the divorce.”

You do not need to win everyone over.

You need to decide who deserves a conversation, who needs space, and who no longer belongs in your life.

Which relationship needs your decision today?

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Considering divorce can feel overwhelming, but having the right information early can help you make confident decisions....
09/02/2026

Considering divorce can feel overwhelming, but having the right information early can help you make confident decisions. Understanding your options before taking the next step can make the process smoother and help you plan for the future.

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Healthy co-parenting does not require perfect agreement. Clear expectations, respectful communication, and consistency c...
09/02/2026

Healthy co-parenting does not require perfect agreement. Clear expectations, respectful communication, and consistency can help create a more supportive environment for your children.

09/02/2026

Your ex did terrible things. So why aren’t they being punished in the divorce?

It can feel deeply unfair when someone has hurt you, yet they may still receive a divorce settlement you don’t believe they deserve.

But the legal process is more focused on equitable division than personal punishment.

And as difficult as that may be to accept, making your ex feel bad doesn’t automatically make you feel better.

Instead, bring the focus back to yourself. Get the support you need to process what happened, heal from it, and start creating a beautiful life for yourself.

Your healing doesn’t have to depend on your ex suffering.

Divorce doesn’t have to cancel Thanksgiving.Family celebrations once happened around one table.After divorce, a parentin...
09/02/2026

Divorce doesn’t have to cancel Thanksgiving.

Family celebrations once happened around one table.

After divorce, a parenting schedule splits the holiday between two homes.

You miss time with your children.

You focus on the hours you lost.

Ask this instead:

“What tradition fits our family now?”

One family I worked with moved Thanksgiving to the Saturday before Thanksgiving.

They named the celebration “The Early Bird.”

Everyone gathered for food, stories, and time together.

The event did not compete with plans at the other home.

The children gained a tradition they looked forward to each year.

You do not need to copy your past celebrations.

Build something around the family structure you have now.

🦃 Choose a date before or after the holiday

📛 Give your celebration a name

🍽️ Repeat one meal or recipe each year

🎲 Let your children choose a game or activity

📸 Take a family photo in the same place

🤝 Respect the time your children spend at both homes

Divorce changes the calendar.

Your family still gets to make memories.

What tradition has helped your family after divorce?

Share your idea below. Another parent might need it today.

09/01/2026

Your ex sends you a message. Do you have to respond?

When conflict is high, it can be difficult to keep a conversation on track, especially when personal attacks or unrelated comments get mixed into the discussion.

But you have more power in that conversation than you may realize.

Get clear on what you’re trying to accomplish. Then choose to engage only with the information that helps move the conversation toward that goal.

You don’t have to engage with every comment or personal attack. You can choose what deserves your attention and what doesn’t.

Stay focused on what matters and respond with purpose.

Words matter during divorce—especially to children.Instead of saying “Mom’s house” and “Dad’s house,” try saying “your h...
09/01/2026

Words matter during divorce—especially to children.

Instead of saying “Mom’s house” and “Dad’s house,” try saying “your home with Mom” and “your home with Dad.”

This small shift can help children feel a sense of belonging in both homes. Thoughtful language won’t remove every challenge, but it can create a more secure and supportive path forward for your family.

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Family law decisions can feel easier with steady guidance. Contact us today to discuss divorce, parenting matters, or fu...
08/31/2026

Family law decisions can feel easier with steady guidance. Contact us today to discuss divorce, parenting matters, or future planning.
https://bit.ly/334wy1x

A thoughtful parenting schedule can give children more than structure. It can provide consistency, predictability, and s...
08/31/2026

A thoughtful parenting schedule can give children more than structure. It can provide consistency, predictability, and support as they adjust to life across two homes.

The first step isn’t filing paperwork.When divorce enters your mind, pressure to act follows.Pause.Before choosing your ...
08/31/2026

The first step isn’t filing paperwork.

When divorce enters your mind, pressure to act follows.

Pause.

Before choosing your next move, understand what you feel, what you need, and what brought you here.

Set aside 20 minutes.

Put your phone down and answer these questions:

🔎 What makes me think I want a divorce?

💬 Which needs remain unmet in my marriage?

🧭 Do I want the marriage to end, or do I want our patterns to end?

🛠️ What have we tried to change?

📅 How long did we try each option?

🤝 Which options have we not discussed?

❤️ What outcome would bring me peace?

Do not force an answer in one sitting.

Look for patterns.

Conflict often returns to trust, money, parenting, affection, or communication.

Name the issue.

Review your options.

Clarity does not choose divorce for you.

Clarity helps you understand why you are considering divorce and which step comes next.

Are you seeking an ending, or are you seeking change?

Save this post for a time when you need space to think.

My name is Tara. I’m the client coach at Atticus Family Law.

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Stillwater, MN
55082

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