07/17/2025
Sisu.
There’s no direct English translation for this Finnish word, but its essence resonates strongly with me: a deep, inner strength. Grit. Determination in the face of overwhelming odds. The quiet courage to keep going, even when there's no guarantee of success. Sisu is a concept woven into the fabric of who I am and where I come from. And lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about it.
Last month, I decided to get the word Sisu tattooed on my wrist — a daily reminder of my roots and the values that continue to guide me. As an immigration attorney, as a mother, as someone who left her home country at 20 to build a life in a place that didn’t always feel familiar — Sisu has been my compass.
But more than anything, I see Sisu in my clients. Every day.
My clients face barriers that many people can’t even begin to imagine. Language, bureaucracy, separation from loved ones, fear of deportation, long waits, and uncertainty that stretches for years. And yet — they persist. I’ve sat with people who haven’t seen their families in decades, who miss births, funerals, weddings — and who still manage to show up for their communities, care for aging parents from afar, raise children in an unfamiliar system, and keep fighting for something better.
I’ve had countless conversations over the years (especially lately) — some hopeful, some heartbreaking — about what it takes to stay, to wait, to not give up.
These day many of my Clients with green cards who are afraid to travel because they fear they may not be let back into the US. People who fear losing their status over the smallest technical mistake. And yet we all keep going and fighting for what is right.
That’s Sisu
There have been moments in this work that have made me question everything — especially in a system that often feels designed to break people and the general acceptance of the cruelty towards others.
But I’ve also witnessed small miracles. Unexpected approvals. Reunited families. Joyful tears in courtrooms and USCIS offices. Laughter after tears.
This work has made me better — not just as an attorney, but as a human. My clients have taught me to trust in resilience, to believe in the power of persistence, and to hold on to hope even when it's hard. They’ve taught me that courage doesn’t always look loud or bold — sometimes, it’s the quiet act of showing up, again and again, when the odds aren’t in your favor.
We all have moments that test us. Being an immigrant has shaped how I see the world, but I know Sisu isn’t just for those of us who’ve crossed borders. Most of us, in one way or another, have faced something that asked us to keep going when we didn’t know how.
So, here’s to the ones who do — who show up, speak up, and stay in it, even when it’s hard.
What does Sisu mean to you?