06/02/2026
Most parents have had the conversation. Some have even reached a clear agreement. But an agreement that lives in your heads and nowhere in a legal document carries no weight in a courtroom.
If something happened to both of you tonight, the people you trust most (the grandparents who live 20 minutes away, the sibling who already loves your children like their own) have no automatic legal authority to take custody. Even a godparent has no automatic legal authority to step in.
This week's article covers the question I hear most often: Does talking about it count?
Hereβs the answer.
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