06/10/2023
Sometimes the courts get it wrong. The judges only see some evidence.
Sometimes the system isn’t fair.
Sometimes one parent is abusive and cruel, and there are times no one else knows the truth.
Sometimes there are parents so determined to destroy the other parent they lose sight of everything. Even the kids.
Sometimes there are personality disorders that go undiagnosed. The court can control whether either parent is psychologically evaluated and this controls the evidence.
With your children being a relationship you’ll have well after 18 years, we urge all the parents now caught in the divorce cycle to remember that your kids are observing and they will figure it out.
For those still choosing? Choose collaborative process. You can always go back to litigation. But the principles of path dependence dictate that you leave a broader set of options if you choose the option least likely to foreclose all others. Keep your options open. Get all the disclosure you need.
May the author of this heartbreaking epitaph rest in peace and may her poor children someday make sense of this legacy.
Disclaimer: With no knowledge of this case or the individuals and no connection to this case or the individuals, while it is a very extreme example of a litigation outcome, the allegations are not different from cases most litigation attorneys have worked on.
Catherine Kassenoff, 54, of Westchester, took to Facebook on May 27 to pen a heartbreaking note where she announced she was would be 'ending my own life' due to cancer and not seeing her kids.