10/31/2011
Mediation is a new way to find the best possible answers to these important quality-of-life questions. In mediation, all family members including the parents agree to the process, and agree to the inclusion of any other participants. They might choose to include the children's spouses, grandchildren, other relatives, parents' friends, caregivers, medical providers, pastors and lawyers. Mediation is time-limited and goal-focused. The mediation process itself tends to provide a safe place for respectful, civilized conversation. In this atmosphere, differences can be discussed, information can be gathered, and agreements can be reached.