Van Tassel Law

07/20/2023

You tried your best, but you’re still unhappy, and you are ready for divorce. Now all you have to do is have “The Talk.” 😟

Initiating a divorce is never easy, but while it may be challenging, the talk must be had.

In my lastest blog, I offer guidance to improve your chances that your divorce talk and the whole process will be productive and peaceful.

You got this!💜

Ending any relationship is undoubtedly tough, but the challenges of ending a marriage surpass all others. Not only have you shared a significant portion of your life with your spouse, but the repercussions that come with divorce are far more complex compared to a breakup of any other nature. Legal,....

06/20/2023

At Van Tassel Law, I have witnessed countless individuals who feel deeply unhappy in their marriages but hesitate to leave because they believe it's better for the children.

Join me as we explore the emotional well-being and long-term development of kids, and reconsider the importance of prioritizing their happiness above all else!

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https://www.vantassellaw.com/post/rethinking-staying-for-the-kids

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06/18/2023

No one can influence a life like someone who takes on the father role.👨🏿‍👧🏿


For all the fathers who have shaped their children's lives for the better and those who fill the role of "dad" without the title, we wish you a very Happy Father's Day!

05/31/2023

Divorce is a life-altering event that requires careful consideration and thoughtful decision-making. No two divorces are the same, and recognizing the importance of individual circumstances, I believe in embracing flexibility through customized divorce plans at Van Tassel Law.

In my latest blog, I explore the empowering nature of tailored solutions and how they can help couples navigate their unique transition with confidence and control.

Understanding the Value of Customized Divorce Plans When it comes to divorce, the traditional one-size-fits-all approach may not address the specific needs, goals, and concerns of each couple. This is where customized divorce plans shine. By recognizing the uniqueness of each situation, these person...

05/26/2023

VAN TASSEL LAW HONORS THOSE WHO MADE THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE.

We want to thank and honor those who made the ultimate sacrifice serving our country. We can enjoy our lives because of those who gave their lives protecting our freedoms.

May your weekend be filled with memories and peace. 🙏God bless America.

04/24/2023

Did you know that there's an alternative to a cut-throat divorce lawyer? Well, there is ...

In this blog post, I explore the importance of empathy in divorce and how choosing a kinder lawyer can lead to a more positive, less costly outcome.

If you would like to learn more, read on. 👇

Why a Kinder Lawyer Can Make All the Difference.

03/21/2023

As a divorce mediator, it's part of my job to empower couples in conflict to remain future-focused, to shelf issues that keep them stuck in the past and don’t serve them or their families, and most importantly, to reach their own informed decisions about all or some of the issues arising out of their separation and/or divorce.

Is it always easy? No.

Sometimes couples come in with the best intentions, but mistakes happen. 🤷‍♀️

That's ok. Knowing these mistakes ahead of time — and how to avoid them — is the best way to begin your divorce mediation on the right foot.

Read my list of 8 common mistakes to avoid during divorce Mediation 👇

In the over 25 years as an attorney in NJ, who specializes as a mediator, I have seen plenty of mistakes that couples make during mediation. Knowing these mistakes ahead of time — and how to avoid them — is the best way to begin your divorce mediation on the right foot. HERE 8 COMMON MISTAKES TO...

02/20/2023

Divorce is undoubtedly one of the most challenging experiences that a person can go through. It can leave individuals feeling isolated, disempowered, and stuck. But what if I told you there is a way to approach divorce that could leave you feeling empowered, confident, and excited about the future?

As a divorce mediator, I have seen firsthand the transformative power of a positive mindset. I interviewed The Belief Coach ofJanine Durso Coaching, who provided invaluable insights into cultivating a positive mindset during and after the divorce process. This will benefit you emotionally and financially.

This is where the real power lies.
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https://www.vantassellaw.com/post/the-power-of-positive-thinking-during-and-after-divorce

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As a divorce mediator, I have seen firsthand the transformative power of a positive mindset. I interviewed Belief Coach Janine Durso, who provided invaluable insights into how to cultivate a positive mindset during and after divorce. This will benefit you emotionally and financially. This is where t...

02/14/2023

Happy Valentine's Day, Parents!

Today, as we celebrate love,
let's remind our children that they're
❤️ always surrounded by it.❤️

With all the chaos in the world, it's important to remind our children of the constants in their lives. No matter what, they can always count on your love and the love of their other parent.

Let's use this day to model the importance of showing love and affection, even when we're hurting.

Let's spread love and positivity to our children and remind them that they are cherished beyond measure.

❤️🙌❤️

💜 https://www.vantassellaw.com/

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02/04/2023

I recently posted about anger which made do a deep dive into thinking- how can positive mindset help in life and divorce?

I an taking a course on just that, Champion Mindset Mentoring, presented by Debbie O'Connell.

Stay tuned for the next blog which will delve into positively mindset!

01/23/2023

😡Anger is an emotion that many people experience, and it can manifest in various ways throughout the divorce journey. As a mediation lawyer, I've observed firsthand the harmful impact anger can have on legal proceedings and personal well-being before, during, and after a divorce.

In this article, I will delve into the common causes of anger and provide 9 practical tips to help you navigate the emotional challenges of divorce with grace, kindness, and resilience. 😀

Anger negative impact on your life before, during, and after divorce.

12/31/2022

As the new year approaches, I wanted to take a moment to personally wish you and your loved ones a happy and healthy start to the year ahead.

As a divorce lawyer, I know firsthand how difficult and emotional the process of divorce can be. However, I also believe that it can be a time of growth and opportunity for new beginnings.

I hope the new year brings you the strength, support, and guidance you need to navigate this challenging time and come out on the other side with a renewed sense of hope and purpose.

Please don't hesitate to reach out to me at Van Tassel Law if you need any help or guidance along the way.

Wishing you all the best for a bright and successful new year,
Laura