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Marybeth Hershkowitz, Esq.

Marybeth Hershkowitz, Esq. Marybeth Hershkowitz, Esq. handles all aspects of family law including divorce, alimony, child suppo

Operating as usual

11/24/2022

11/24/2022

11/24/2022

Say that twice….
11/22/2022

Say that twice….

11/04/2022

09/28/2022

08/31/2022

Saturday vibes
06/18/2022

Saturday vibes

05/30/2022
04/15/2022
Happy Saturday! Be your best Batman….
02/12/2022

Happy Saturday! Be your best Batman….

Seriously….
01/28/2022

Seriously….

Mantra for 2022
01/12/2022

Mantra for 2022

Find the humor in life……..
01/01/2022

Find the humor in life……..

Be a badass
12/11/2021

Be a badass

Power of change ⚡️
10/26/2021

Power of change ⚡️

Profound.   I never realized how many buckets I carried.
10/22/2021

Profound. I never realized how many buckets I carried.

Adele wrote an album on divorce and the world is having big conversations about it. In an empowering way I’ve never seen before. And we only have one song.

Being divorced and having that be part of your story doesn’t go away. So if this dark cloud of shame now has a moment in being lightened, I’ll take it.

Nobody just gets divorced.

I feel that’s not often understood.

It’s not like a microwave breaks and so you abandon the whole house, unwilling to fix it. It’s like the whole house is burning down and you’re standing with buckets of water, trying to manage the smoke and flames and finally, finally, you get yourself and your family outside before it engulfs you, too.

At least, this was my experience.

I was carrying buckets for years. We all were.
It just kept burning.

After we would be asked “How did it happen?” and I get it, they want to know who started the fire. “But did you not try…?” I get it, they didn’t see me with the buckets, all those years.

Sometimes the damage is too great, and starting again IS the fix.
At least, that was my experience.

Adele writes about divorce, in a way that is not rooted in devastation, but an ask.
An ask for empathy.
An ask for compassion.

As someone far past her divorce (almost 6 years now) I would ask the same again and again.
Empathy. Go easy.

It takes a while to heal from the burns. It takes a while to rebuild. But my gosh, we are here. Standing and alive. All of us.

Shane and I are both divorcees, but still believe in marriage so we went for it again. I love that we did. Marriage is beautiful.

We are not defined by our divorces but healing continually from them.

So yeah, I love that divorce is having a moment. Not because it’s cool or trendy but because it’s really hard and requires a lot of a person, and we often just tuck it away as a statistic or blast it as a headline.
Not much room for the in-between.

So I have to thank .
Because what a beautiful time to have people look at something so difficult and choose to see the person who stands outside of the flames not in blame, but with empathy & compassion.

To take a moment for the in-between.

It wasn’t a carnival…..
10/20/2021

It wasn’t a carnival…..

Monday motivation
10/18/2021

Monday motivation

Admit when you’re wrong….
10/13/2021

Admit when you’re wrong….

A little fall cleaning….
10/07/2021

A little fall cleaning….

Get back in the game!!!
09/16/2021

Get back in the game!!!

My kind of client….
09/15/2021

My kind of client….

We can solve your problems
09/10/2021

We can solve your problems

One year ❤️
09/09/2021

One year ❤️

Be magical….
08/16/2021

Be magical….

Oui oui
08/11/2021

Oui oui

Do this stat!
08/02/2021

Do this stat!

Forgiveness is key.
07/30/2021

Forgiveness is key.

Lucky girl…..
07/22/2021

Lucky girl…..

Wednesday wisdom
07/21/2021

Wednesday wisdom

Wednesday wisdom
07/14/2021

Wednesday wisdom

True story.
07/04/2021

True story.

Your life is “invite only”
06/28/2021

Your life is “invite only”

Move on
06/24/2021

Move on

And it’s for free!
06/17/2021

And it’s for free!

Protect yourself.
06/09/2021

Protect yourself.

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Red Bank, NJ
07701

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