09/30/2026
Your first call goes further when you arrive with the basics in hand.
Before your consultation, gather the information that helps tell the story of your situation:
• Key dates, including marriage, separation, and upcoming court dates
• Recent pay stubs, tax returns, and a simple budget
• A list of accounts, property, vehicles, loans, and other financial obligations
• Details about your children’s schedules, school, and daily routines
• The questions you want answered, including the ones that may feel difficult to ask
You do not need to have every document or every answer before getting started. A little preparation can help make your consultation more focused, productive, and centered on what matters most to you.
BOK Law & Mediation Services can help you understand your options and what comes next.