05/07/2020
Some Co-parenting Do's (more to come):
1. Exchange the child at neutral locations if there is a history of the parents arguing at each other's homes. For instance, meet at a restaurant.
2. Establish times for the child to phone the other parent.
3.Tell the child it is okay to feel sad and that things will get better.
4. Negotiate far in advance, weeks if possible, if your schedule needs to be changed.
5. Communicate clearly. Be specific and put it in writing.
6. Establish a policy of noninterference. When the child is with the other parent, he or she has full responsibility for their care.
7. Treat the other parent like a business partner, not an intimate friend. The business venture, in this instance, is your child.
8. Help the child transition between homes. Set a routine so the child does a favorite activity, like watching a video or eats a special dish like spaghetti.
9. Tell your child often that he/she is not to blame for the separation/divorce.
10. Set limits for the child. Boundaries make the child feel more secure.
