Orlando Attorney Aubrey Ducker

04/16/2026

Just a quick shout out to Yarnell Mallard - you know him as the shoeshine guy at the courthouse. He completely redid my favorite summer wingtips and they are outstanding!! He’s also having surgery and will be out for about 6 weeks - prayers appreciated! Also, get some shoes together for when he gets back and help him help you look your best!

02/25/2026

Just gonna put this here for all the parents out there. It’s tough being a kid. It’s tough being a parent too, but only one is responsible for the other.

01/13/2026

Just some good advice!

12/19/2025

Thanks to the Orlando Sentinel for posting this story today:
Diploma Mills are churning out “graduates” at alarming rates. Crime pays as the U.S. Attorneys identified more than $220 Million Dollars paid to the illicit institutions for bogus degrees and transcripts. At least one death is attributed to a “graduate” in Missouri.
Education Law really is a thing!

12/12/2025

Thanks to The Pump Club for this little nugget. It aligns with Jacinta Gallant's Curious Mediator program I have been exploring.

Be curious, not judgmental. Walt Whitman

Most of the trouble we get into — interpersonally, emotionally, even professionally —starts with one reflex: assuming we already understand.

Judgment is the ego’s shortcut. It feels efficient, but it closes the door to learning, misreads other people’s intentions, and traps us in the same stories we’ve been telling ourselves for years.

Curiosity does the opposite. It slows the moment down just enough to notice the hidden angles: why someone reacted sharply, what fear is underneath your own irritation, what piece of context you never bothered to ask about.

Curiosity isn’t soft. It’s courageous. Because it requires admitting, I don’t know everything yet. And that’s the foundation of growth, understanding, and empathy.

Judgment wants certainty. Curiosity wants truth. And truth always lives one question deeper.

11/06/2025

What is Collaboration?

10/17/2025

No Hate! This is powerful!

10/13/2025

In Submarine news:

Virginia-class submarines are bigger, faster, quieter, and have more endurance and firepower than Los Angeles class they passed by in sheer numbers.

10/02/2025

Fights between members of a couple are usually about the same thing:
who is the better person – who is more loving, generous, flexible,
intelligent, competent, forgiving, and truthful of the pair.

If you are wondering, I like to include real pictures in my updates. This is my parents in front of the White House in the snow when they were young newlyweds.

Questions about Collaborative Divorce, Estate Planning (including Collaborative Estate Planning) Call me!

09/22/2025

Monday's motivation courtesy of Arnold:

The 3-Step Goal Writing Template
Based on the study we just shared, here’s a 3-step framework that can help turn your words into your reality.

Step 1: Imagine Your Ideal Future (10 minutes)
Write freely about a meaningful goal in your life. It doesn’t have to be fitness—it could be anything from career to family, travel, or personal growth. Be vivid and detailed:

What does success look like?
How will your life feel different when you achieve it?
Why does this goal matter to you?

Step 2: Create Your Action Plan (10 minutes)
Break the big vision into clear steps. Focus on the how.

What are 3–5 specific actions you can take to move forward?
What obstacles might get in the way?
How will you respond when those challenges show up?

Step 3: Strengthen Your Commitment (10 minutes)
This is where writing builds accountability.

Rewrite your goal in one clear, powerful sentence.
Write down your first action step and when you’ll do it.
Share your goal or plan with a friend, family member, or community for added support.

Think of it as a workout for your brain: Step 1 warms you up with vision, Step 2 builds strength with strategy, and Step 3 locks in commitment like a finisher.

09/22/2025

Thanks to the Florida Bar’s Speakers Bureau and Life Focus Ministries Pastors Edward and Mary Pitts for inviting me to speak to the congregation regarding Collaborative Estate Planning, Trusts and Probate! Wonderful time and such a blessing for me!