Oberst DeFala Law, PC

10/17/2026

Join me virtually to celebrate the launch of Love Your Divorce: Your Guide to a Holistic Happier Ever After! I’ll be sharing more about the book, the story behind it and why I believe divorce can be approached with more clarity, compassion and intention. I’ll also be offering my insights as a Reiki Master and how I incorporate these principles in divorce mediation.

The virtual launch is Wednesday, October 28 at 7 PM ET on Zoom, and I would love to have you there. Come celebrate, ask questions and be part of the conversation about a healthier, more holistic way to move through divorce.

💻Registration is free–there’s a link in my bio! 🔗

Or go to www.loveyourdivorcelaunch.eventbrite.com

attorneywithaheart

10/16/2026

10/14/2026

Thank you for all the book launch love! 🤍

I poured my heart and soul into Love Your Divorce-along with more than 30 years of experience helping individuals and families navigate one of the most difficult transitions of their lives.

This book holds so much of what I’ve learned, what I believe and what I wish everyone facing divorce could know: there is a better way through.

You can protect yourself without losing yourself.
You can choose compassion without sacrificing strength. And an ending can become the beginning of a happier, more authentic life.
Holding this book in my hands is incredibly emotional.

Love Your Divorce: Your Guide to a Holistic Happier Ever After is officially out in the world. I hope it finds its way to the people who need it most. 🤍

p.s. Please leave me a review on Amazon!

10/13/2026

Today is the day! 🩵

After more than 30 years of helping individuals and families navigate divorce, I am incredibly proud to finally hold Love Your Divorce: Your Guide to a Holistic Happier Ever After in my hands-and share it with all of you.

I wrote this book because I believe there is a better way to divorce: one rooted in compassion, intention and respect for the whole person and family. Divorce may be an ending, but it can also be the beginning of something meaningful, peaceful and even joyful.

Love Your Divorce is officially out today! I hope it helps you find your own happier ever after.

🔗Buy it on the link in my bio on Amazon and please share with people who could use this!

10/12/2026

Tomorrow, a book that has been years-and really, decades-in the making will finally be out in the world.

Love Your Divorce brings together what I’ve learned from more than 30 years of helping people and families navigate one of life’s biggest transitions: divorce can be painful, but it doesn’t have to be destructive.

There is a more compassionate, intentional, holistic way forward-and I can’t wait to share it with you.

Tomorrow, it’s time to Love Your Divorce. 🤍

10/09/2026

I wrote Love Your Divorce for anyone who needs to hear that divorce doesn’t have to be the end of your happily ever after.

Whether you’re just beginning to consider divorce, already navigating the process or wondering how you’ll ever move beyond the conflict, I want this book to help you see another way forward.

A way that protects what matters, honors the whole person, and leaves room for healing, growth and even joy on the other side.

Love Your Divorce: Your Guide to a Holistic Happier Ever After arrives October 13. 🤍

10/05/2026

Especially during divorce, compassion can feel difficult when emotions are high and there is hurt on both sides. But compassion doesn’t mean giving in, ignoring your own needs or failing to protect yourself.

It means making room for another perspective while remaining grounded in your own.

I’ve seen how that shift can change conversations, open the door to solutions, and help families move forward with less conflict. Compassion isn’t weakness. It’s strength with perspective.

My new book Love Your Divorce comes out October 13!

10/02/2026

Can you really love your divorce?

I know how that sounds. Divorce can bring grief, uncertainty, anger, and tremendous change. I’m certainly not suggesting you have to love any of that.

But what if you could appreciate where the experience ultimately takes you? What you learn about yourself. What you choose to let go of. The strength you discover. The life you create on the other side.

That’s the idea at the heart of my upcoming book, Love Your Divorce: Your Guide to a Holistic Happier Ever After, coming October 13.

You don’t have to love what happened to believe something meaningful can come from what happens next. 🤍

09/30/2026

Two weeks from today, Love Your Divorce will officially be out in the world. 🤍

I wrote this book because I want to change the way we think about divorce. It doesn’t have to be defined by endless conflict, bitterness and a determination to “win.” There is room for compassion and strength, protection and peace, endings and new beginnings.

There is a better way to divorce. I can’t wait to share it with you on October 13.

09/28/2026

I will always support people who genuinely want to work on their marriage. Divorce shouldn’t be the first answer simply because a relationship has become difficult.

But there are also times when ending a marriage is the healthiest path forward-and staying together “for the children” isn’t always the gift parents believe it is.

Children experience the tension, resentment, and unhappiness around them. Sometimes what serves them best isn’t keeping a marriage intact at all costs, but seeing their parents make thoughtful, healthy choices and create more peaceful lives.

If divorce becomes necessary, the question shifts from “How do we stay together?” to “How do we move forward in the healthiest way possible?” 🤍

From Love Your Divorce-my new book due out October 13!