10/10/2026
10.10.2003
The INFJ Lens didn’t begin in 2026.
That’s just when more than 25 years of thinking finally got a name.
Early 90’s I started discovering patterns, not until the late 90s, I had started seeing patterns differently from a lot of different angles.
Growing up between languages and environments I didn’t always understand, I learned to watch numbers, behavior, body language, repetition, cause and effect, and connect the pieces when nobody could explain them to me.
My older brother was one of the few people I could talk to about all of it.
We were brothers, best friends, teammates, competitors, and sometimes two normal brothers who fought like crazy.
But when it came to how we saw the world, we usually saw eye to eye.
By 2001, we were already talking about 2020, 2030, 2040, 2050.
What would change?
What would technology do?
Why did people accept systems they knew were unfair?
Could life be built differently?
We called our dream:
BEST TWO GUY.
Then he got sick.
On 10/10/2003, I lost him. Then I lost my self.
But I never stopped working on what we started. That’s what helped me stay grounded.
My younger brother later helped me understand another side of the pattern; people, communication, behavior, and the difference between what people say and what they actually do.
One brother helped shape the dream.
One brother helped me see the pattern.
Years later, in a dream, I felt close to my older brother again. We worked on a project together in that dream. I can only remember logos and patterns from it.
Somewhere through that journey, the name The INFJ Lens began to make sense.
I questioned the name for a long time. I couldn’t continue with our name. It was too painful.
Then I realized:
A lens doesn’t tell you what to believe.
It helps you see what you might have missed.
That was what we had been trying to do since we were kids.
So the dream didn’t change.
The name did.
Today, I’m turning decades of those ideas, systems, mistakes, lessons, business experience, real estate experience, technology, AI, and decision-making into tools other people can actually use.
The goal is simple:
Help people think for themselves.
See the pattern.
Question what doesn’t add up.
Build a better life with intention.
Best Two Guy was the beginning.
The INFJ Lens is what it became.
And everything I build now carries a piece of what we started together.
In memory of my brother Mukhtar Al-Ajlouni 10.10.2003
(مختار كايد محمود مصلح علي العجلوني)
رحمه الله عليك.
Mustafa Ajlouni, MBA
Founder, The INFJ Lens
See The Pattern | Move Smarter.
Later today: STILL TRUE?
A song connected to this story, the promises we made, and one question:
After everything changes… is the dream still true?