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California Divorce & Family Law Litigation
High-asset divorce • Complex custody • Family Law Matters
Offices: Newport Beach & San Diego
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05/27/2026

Episode 9 is live!

Divorcing a Narcissist is the newest episode of Irreconcilable: The Divorce Podcast, and it is the episode more of you have asked for than any other.

A narcissist does not settle because it is fair. They do not co-parent because it is right. They use the court system to maintain control, drag out litigation to exhaust you financially and emotionally, and rewrite every conversation to make you look like the problem. If you have ever tried to reason with someone who treats compromise as weakness, you already know what we are talking about.

In this episode, the Sullivan Law team covers how to recognize narcissistic patterns during a divorce, why these cases require a completely different legal strategy from the start, how manipulation and gaslighting show up in custody evaluations and courtroom testimony, the financial tactics narcissists use to hide assets and weaponize support, and why tools like grey rocking, parallel parenting, and structured communication are not optional in these cases.

This is not a diagnosis. It is a reality check. And if you are living it, you are not imagining it.
Listen now on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts. Share it with anyone who needs to hear it.

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05/27/2026

Sometimes a gut feeling is all you have. If you suspect something's off in your relationship, your partner might actually reveal it themselves. Trust your intuition.

05/26/2026

When one spouse is an overspender, protecting your assets is crucial. This might involve opening separate accounts, but open communication and aligning on financial goals are key. Financial disclosures in divorce will reveal the truth about savings.

05/26/2026

Children need a safe space, shielded from parental conflict and adult worries. Let's focus on communication that centers their needs and keeps negativity at bay. Their peace of mind is everything.

05/26/2026

Financial infidelity is a complex topic, and today we're diving deep into what it means. Join our discussion with Richard Sullivan, a founding partner with nearly 50 years of practice, and Rachel Bennett, a senior attorney with over a decade of experience. Matthew Sullivan, our COO and podcast host, moderates.

05/26/2026

In custody battles, you are the most critical witness. How the judge views you can be the deciding factor. Your presentation and demeanor matter more than you think.

05/25/2026

Wrapping up episode 6. The biggest lesson? Be truthful with your spouse about finances. If you aren't, you'll likely get caught. Honesty is the best policy.

Same divorce. Two completely different approaches. Two completely different outcomes.Emotional divorce looks like reacti...
05/25/2026

Same divorce. Two completely different approaches. Two completely different outcomes.

Emotional divorce looks like reacting to every provocation. Sending long, heated texts at midnight. Fighting over items that have sentimental value but no financial impact. Making decisions based on anger, hurt, or the need to prove a point. Rejecting offers without evaluating them. Venting on social media. Treating every disagreement as a battle that must be won.

Strategic divorce looks like pausing before responding. Communicating through a co-parenting app or email so everything is documented. Knowing which issues actually affect custody, support, and property division. Evaluating settlement offers based on after-tax value and long-term impact. Letting your attorney handle the conflict so you can focus on your children and your future. Choosing outcomes over emotions.

The difference between these two approaches is not about how much you care. It is about how you channel that energy. The most strategic clients we work with feel everything just as deeply. They just do not let those feelings make their legal decisions for them.

That distinction is the difference between a divorce that sets you back and one that sets you up.

We dig into this in Episode 8 of Irreconcilable: The Divorce Podcast. Link in bio.
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05/25/2026

Gaslighting's influence extends into financial, familial, and gender dynamics. Recognizing these patterns is the first step. If you're seeking clarity, professional guidance can offer confirmation and support.

Today, we pause to remember and honor the brave men and women who gave their lives in service to our country. Their sacr...
05/25/2026

Today, we pause to remember and honor the brave men and women who gave their lives in service to our country. Their sacrifice and courage will never be forgotten.

Wishing you and your family a meaningful Memorial Day from Sullivan Law & Associates. 🇺🇸

05/25/2026

Why 'irreconcilable differences' is the perfect title for a divorce podcast. It's the legal term that signifies a complete breakdown, beyond repair. Tomato, tomato... it's the language of divorce.

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Newport Beach, CA
92660

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