10/19/2026
Is a sibling handling your mom’s money and keeping the rest of the family in the dark?
Families often ask us: “My brother is handling Mom’s money and won’t show the rest of us anything. What can we do?”
A good first step is to find out whether he has legal authority to act. Does he hold a power of attorney from your mother, or is he just helping informally?
An agent under a power of attorney has legal duties to the parent they act for, and an attorney can explain what an agent can and can’t do.
Before anything else, consider a family meeting to learn the facts, without assigning blame.
Our free guide covers the conversations to have with your parent, the signs of scams or undue influence, and the immediate next steps. Link in the comments. 👇
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Educational information, not legal advice.