Lois M. Brenner, ESQ

Lois M. Brenner, ESQ With over 35 years of experience, New York divorce lawyer Lois M. Brenner, Esq. has what it takes to create a smooth divorce process for you. Don’t wait.

For over three decades, Lois M. has helped those facing a countless number of family hardships. Whether you are dealing with divorce, child custody, child support, estate planning, family business, separation agreements, visitation, taxes or other family law matters, this firm can help. This New York divorce firm is committed to serving clients with the utmost respect to help every client achieve

a smooth and cordial divorce process. When you become a client, your family becomes our priority. We will take any and all necessary steps to ensure every party involved with your case is considered along the way. Call Lois M. and start your new life today.

Are you questioning whether it’s time to leave your marriage? You are not alone.In this blog, I explore 10 signs it may ...
06/03/2026

Are you questioning whether it’s time to leave your marriage? You are not alone.

In this blog, I explore 10 signs it may be time to leave and how mediation or litigation can shape your next chapter. Divorce doesn’t have to mean chaos. The right strategy can protect your peace, your future, and your family. Call now to schedule your free consultation 646.663.4546.

Read my blog here:
https://www.divorcelawyerny.com/blog/2026/june/child-custody-divorce-planning-10-signs-it-s-tim/

Deciding to leave a marriage is rarely a single moment. For most people, it is the result of years of emotional exhaustion, repeated disappointment, broken trust, unmet needs, conflict, or the slow realization that the relationship no longer supports growth, safety, or wellbeing. Yet many people sta...

In my newest blog, as a medically trained NY divorce attorney and mediator, I share critical guidance on how to leave a ...
05/27/2026

In my newest blog, as a medically trained NY divorce attorney and mediator, I share critical guidance on how to leave a narcissistic spouse safely and intelligently, including:

• When mediation may work
• When litigation becomes necessary
• How narcissists behave during divorce
• Child custody concerns
• Financial protection strategies
• The importance of documentation and boundaries
If you or someone you know and love is navigating a high-conflict relationship or divorce, this blog offers valuable insight and practical advice. Please call to schedule your free consultation today! 646.663.4546

Read the full blog below.

Leaving a narcissist is rarely simple. What begins as emotional manipulation inside a marriage often escalates into control, intimidation, financial pressure, gaslighting, and high-conflict divorce tactics once separation becomes real. Many people feel trapped not because they lack strength, but bec...

Looking for a drama free divorce? Divorce does NOT have to mean war.If you're considering divorce, there is a better wa...
05/19/2026

Looking for a drama free divorce? Divorce does NOT have to mean war.

If you're considering divorce, there is a better way and one that protects your finances, your family, your privacy, and your peace of mind.

In my newest blog, I explain why more sophisticated clients are choosing mediation over litigation and how my psychologically based divorce mediation process helps couples divorce without unnecessary drama.

As both an attorney and medical professional, I’ve created a unique approach that saves time, money, and emotional damage. Call now to schedule your free consultation 646.663.4546

Before you decide to fight, read this blog first:

https://www.divorcelawyerny.com/blog/2026/may/divorce-without-drama-try-mediation-/

Divorce does not have to be a battlefield. There is a peaceful way to divorce! For many couples, especially professionals, business owners, executives, physicians, and high-net-worth families, the idea of a long, public, emotionally exhausting court battle is the last thing they want. I hear this fr...

Looking for a drama free divorce? Divorce does NOT have to mean war.If you're considering divorce, there is a better wa...
05/19/2026

Looking for a drama free divorce? Divorce does NOT have to mean war.

If you're considering divorce, there is a better way and one that protects your finances, your family, your privacy, and your peace of mind.

In my newest blog, I explain why more sophisticated clients are choosing mediation over litigation and how my psychologically based divorce mediation process helps couples divorce without unnecessary drama.

As both an attorney and medical professional, I’ve created a unique approach that saves time, money, and emotional damage. Call now to schedule your free consultation 646.663.4546

Before you decide to fight, read this blog first :

https://www.divorcelawyerny.com/blog/

The right information can help you make the best decisions about your divorce. Read our blog or call a Divorce Attorney in New York at Lois M. Brenner, Esq..

Divorcing a narcissist is difficult. Divorcing a narcissist when significant wealth is involved requires strategy, discr...
04/22/2026

Divorcing a narcissist is difficult. Divorcing a narcissist when significant wealth is involved requires strategy, discretion, and experience.

In this blog, I discuss how affluent individuals can protect their assets, maintain privacy, and avoid unnecessary litigation when divorcing a narcissistic spouse.

Learn why high net worth clients increasingly choose strategic mediation, and how early planning can make all the difference.

Schedule a free and confidential consultation with me and my team today. Call 212.734.1551.

Read more here:

In my experience, when wealth and narcissism collide, divorce becomes more complex. Divorcing a narcissist is challenging. Divorcing a narcissist when significant wealth is involved requires a highly strategic, discreet, and sophisticated approach. I can help!

Wedding season is here and for high-net-worth couples, a prenuptial agreement is one of the smartest decisions you can m...
04/20/2026

Wedding season is here and for high-net-worth couples, a prenuptial agreement is one of the smartest decisions you can make before walking down the aisle.

A thoughtfully crafted prenup protects your assets, your business, your family wealth, and your privacy while strengthening your financial foundation for marriage.

If your wedding is approaching, it's not too late. In my recent blog, I explain why sophisticated couples are prioritizing prenuptial agreements and how I and my team helps high-net-worth clients protect their future with discretion and strategy.

Schedule your free confidential consultation today at 212.734.1551.

https://www.divorcelawyerny.com/blog/2026/april/wedding-season-is-here-why-high-net-worth-couple/






Your wedding day marks the beginning of your life together. A prenuptial agreement ensures that your financial future is thoughtfully planned as well. For high-net-worth couples, this is not about expecting divorce, it is about protecting what you have built and preserving your future.

Are You Preparing for Divorce? Here's What I Tell Clients To Do First.If you are considering divorce, what you do before...
04/13/2026

Are You Preparing for Divorce? Here's What I Tell Clients To Do First.
If you are considering divorce, what you do before filing can significantly affect your outcome.
In this blog, I share:
✔ Strategic preparation tips
✔ Lesser-known financial planning advice
✔ How affluent clients protect their future
✔ Why planning early matters
If you're thinking about divorce, start here.
Schedule a free and confidential consultation with me and my team today. Call 212.734.1551 right now.

https://www.divorcelawyerny.com/blog/2026/april/are-you-preparing-for-divorce-here-s-what-i-tell/

Divorce is not just a legal process, it is a financial, emotional, and strategic transition that can significantly impact your future, your family, and your wealth. For affluent and high-net-worth clients, the stakes are even higher.

Remember, divorcing a narcissist is not just a legal process, it is a psychologically strategic and emotional challenge ...
03/31/2026

Remember, divorcing a narcissist is not just a legal process, it is a psychologically strategic and emotional challenge that requires medical experience, insight, and careful legal planning.

In this blog, I share my sophisticated approach to handling high‑conflict divorces involving narcissistic spouses, and how psychological and legal strategy can help protect your children, your finances, and your future.

If you are considering divorce, early guidance can make all the difference.

Schedule a free and confidential consultation with me right now at 212.734.1551

Divorcing a narcissist is unlike any other divorce. It is not simply a legal process, it is often a complex psychological and strategic challenge that requires experience and discretion. For affluent professionals, business owners, and high‑net‑worth individuals, the stakes are even higher. Fina...

Will I Get 50/50 Custody?It's the #1 question parents ask when facing divorce and the answer may surprise you.Courts to...
03/27/2026

Will I Get 50/50 Custody?

It's the #1 question parents ask when facing divorce and the answer may surprise you.

Courts today are increasingly favoring shared parenting, but 50/50 custody is not automatic. How you position yourself as a parent can make all the difference.

I, along with my experienced custody team guide parents through mediation or litigation to help protect their relationship with their children and pursue meaningful parenting time.

If you're concerned about custody, now is the time to learn your options.

Call now to schedule your free and confidential consultation 212.734.1441.

Read more:

https://www.divorcelawyerny.com/blog/2026/march/will-i-get-50-50-custody-here-s-what-parents-nee/

Courts across the country, especially in New York, Brooklyn, Queens, and Long Island are increasingly favoring shared parenting arrangements when it is in the child’s best interests. In fact, joint custody is now awarded in approximately 51% of cases, the highest percentage ever. Parents today wan...

Should You Try Mediation First Before Divorce?More sophisticated couples are choosing mediation before litigation, and f...
03/25/2026

Should You Try Mediation First Before Divorce?

More sophisticated couples are choosing mediation before litigation, and for good reason.

Divorce doesn’t have to be a battle. With the right approach, it can be strategic, private, and thoughtfully managed.

At my practice, we use a psychologically-informed mediation process designed to address personality dynamics, reduce conflict, and help couples reach intelligent, lasting agreements at a fraction of the cost of litigation. If you're considering divorce, mediation may be the smartest first step.

Schedule a confidential and free consultation right now at 212.734.1551 and learn how we can help you move forward with clarity and confidence:

https://www.divorcelawyerny.com/blog/2026/march/i-m-thinking-of-divorcing-should-i-try-mediation/

Divorce today is no longer just about ending a marriage, it’s about protecting your financial future, your privacy, and your emotional well-being. Mediation may be the vehicle that is the best method for divorcing with privacy and without conflict.

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