Linda A. Subbloie, Esq.

Linda A. Subbloie, Esq. GUIDANCE. PROTECTION. RESULTS. PERSONAL EXPERIENCE
It was life experience that led me to the law and, in particular, family law.

Born and raised in Orange, Connecticut, I was a young married woman, working as a clerk and going to school part time to earn a bachelor's degree when my six year marriage ended. There was a silver lining to the difficult and painful year-long divorce that followed. It was during this time that I realized I wanted to practice law. I completed my undergraduate degree at Nova Southeastern University

in Florida at the age of 30, and three years later achieved a Juris Doctor from the same institution. In 1990 I was admitted to the Florida Bar and in September of that year opened my own practice. In 1996, I returned to Connecticut and was
admitted to the Connecticut Bar, where I started a second
practice. Over two decades in practice, I've utilized my passion, empathy, and natural curiosity in concert with the knowledge of law to focus on the family. I understand the feelings involved in a divorce: the pain, the conflict, the fear, disbelief, anger, and heartbreak. "As I see it, my job is to take people by the hand and lead them through the dark and back into the light." CHANGE IS NEVER EASY
Going through a divorce is one of the most difficult events in your life. It’s a highly emotional time that can be extremely stressful. It is not unusual for you to feel fearful, nervous, sad, or even angry—sometimes all at once. That’s why it’s vitally important that you choose experienced counsel who can guide you through this emotional time, help you understand the process, and ensure that you are informed and comfortable with your options, this way you can make the right choices for you and your children. If you live in Southern Connecticut, I would like to help you transition through this challenging time. There are many issues to confront when contemplating or seeking a divorce, and these issues become even more complex when children are involved. Addressing the emotional, psychological, and financial needs of you and your children is just the beginning. I treat each person as an individual with special concerns and needs. PROVIDING PEACE OF MIND
When people are in crisis, when a family is splitting up and they don't know how to find their way through the system, I'm there to help. My goal is not only to direct people through the system, but to offer them the emotional support they need to make the tough decisions and to make them quickly. As a Family Law Attorney, I see my role as two-fold: 1) To advocate for clients, help them navigate through legal confusion, and get the best possible result while following the rules of the system. 2) Make sure clients are emotionally healthy throughout the divorce process and ensure that they, and their children, are physically, mentally, financially, and emotionally protected throughout the duration. In the midst of chaos, being able to rely on someone who can bring you peace of mind is invaluable. It's not always about division of property or who gets custody. More often than not, peace of mind is about understanding why a spouse is acting the way they are. I try to help people understand that they can't control that. Much needed emotional support and good legal advice: a powerful combination.

DIVORCE MEDIATIONIf you are contemplating divorce you should look into divorce mediation as an option. Mediation can not...
07/18/2022

DIVORCE MEDIATION
If you are contemplating divorce you should look into divorce mediation as an option. Mediation can not only save money, but some of your sanity as well.

When people hire their own lawyers to litigate a divorce, not only do the parties suffer stress, but if children are involved, it spills over and negatively affects them as well. Lawyers are trained to advocate for their clients.

Unfortunately, that means advocate at an expense- emotionally and financially. As soon as you both retain lawyers, the war begins. There is no way getting around it.
So think about mediation and talk to your spouse. It really is worth a try.

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DESPITE CHALLENGING TIMES FINANCIALLY, YOU CAN STILL GET DIVORCEDIf you have been thinking about getting a divorce for a...
07/18/2022

DESPITE CHALLENGING TIMES FINANCIALLY, YOU CAN STILL GET DIVORCED

If you have been thinking about getting a divorce for a long time but are too afraid to take the next step because of finances, you are not alone. These are challenging times with gas prices hovering around $5 a gallon, mothers worried about baby formula, and inflation driving up the costs of everything from food to other necessities. You must be thinking that you just don’t have the money to hire a lawyer.

Although it is always best to have a full-time lawyer on board to do everything necessary to get you through a divorce, there are other options. And even though finances are especially tough right now, you can save some of those funds to use towards establishing two households rather than you both suffering living in one.

I provide legal coaching and mediation services so you both don’t need to spend a fortune on lawyers. Legal coaching allows you to represent yourself but gives you peace of mind that a lawyer is there watching your back and providing you with guidance to get you through the process.

You can try to reach an agreement with your spouse and then use legal coaching services to help you through that part of the process along with completing the process once you reach an agreement- including the paperwork and how to finalize your divorce. OR, I can mediate your divorce as a neutral professional who does not represent either of you. As a mediator I can help you both reach an agreement and then take care of the necessary paperwork to get the divorce finalized.

If you have any questions about my services, please feel free to contact me. No one should suffer everyday in a bad situation when there are options out there to help you move on.

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Call Today: (203) 562-2961
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Maybe you and your spouse are somewhat amicable and the one thing you definitely both agree upon is that you would rathe...
12/27/2021

Maybe you and your spouse are somewhat amicable and the one thing you definitely both agree upon is that you would rather spend your hard-earned money on your children as opposed to lawyers. That is why I offer legal coaching as an alternative to the traditional divorce attorney model. I provide you with the tools to negotiate a settlement with your spouse.
I help you through the process. Keep in mind that I can only represent one of you. The other party should retain counsel to obtain advice and review any documents.

For more information, visit: https://attorneylindasubbloie.com/divorce.html
Questions? Call Linda Today: (203) 562-2961

I have written quite a bit in the past two years about how you can get through your divorce during the pandemic. Now I w...
12/27/2021

I have written quite a bit in the past two years about how you can get through your divorce during the pandemic. Now I would like to talk about how you can get through your divorce with a lingering pandemic and the technology that let’s us do so conveniently.
Many of us are now using teleconferencing for our jobs, business, heath care and family get togethers, just to name a few. Government has been forced to go “online” for many of its tasks, including but not limited to the court systems- whether local or federal.
I believe the pandemic has forced all of us to utilize technology as part of our regular lives.
This doesn’t mean we can’t meet in person. I don’t think our lives will ever be all tech and no live-in person. But I do think we are willing to embrace the convenience of technology to accomplish some of our day to day needs.
I provide divorce mediation services in person at my office and online via Zoom.
For more Information visit: https://attorneylindasubbloie.com/divorce.html
Questions? Call Linda at: (203) 562-2961

Divorce Mediation and Legal Coaching, The New NormalMEDIATION AND LEGAL COACHING - ALTERNATIVES TO THE TRADITIONAL DIVOR...
08/05/2021

Divorce Mediation and Legal Coaching, The New Normal

MEDIATION AND LEGAL COACHING - ALTERNATIVES TO THE TRADITIONAL DIVORCE MODEL

I can’t stress enough that people who are considering divorce need to consider alternatives to the traditional divorce model of hiring lawyers and battling out your private lives in a forum originally set up for trying criminals and those who break the law. Our court system was never meant to handle family law matters and still isn’t, despite the system claiming it’s improving. It’s not.

Matter of fact, the pandemic forced the courts to improve-and the result is that now we can’t get anything done. Prior to the pandemic, the costly time wasted was beyond practical to the point of ridiculous. Now, there is no wasted time, at the expense of nothing happening at all.

I am all for Zoom meetings, Microsoft Teams court appearances, and the like. This all saves time and money and works. But the judicial branch has failed in their attempt to overhaul the antiquated system in place for many years. Basically, your case sits there for months and then suddenly you are expected to go to trial.

So, all of that being said as I rant on, please consider mediation and legal coaching. I provide both services. You want to try to settle your case. You can’t wait for the Connecticut court system to help you out. It just isn’t set up to do so. And, if you are angry and want to litigate? Forget it. You won’t get a hearing date.

Ask Linda a question: [email protected]

Divorce & Custody Without The BattleWHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO SETTLE CUSTODY?I would have to say that the worse part of di...
07/09/2021

Divorce & Custody Without The Battle

WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO SETTLE CUSTODY?

I would have to say that the worse part of divorce has to do with your children. It’s so sad. And so many parents do not put them first. Matter of fact, MOST PARENTS PUT THEM LAST. Interestingly, if you ask a parent who is actually putting their children last, they will adamantly tell you that they are putting their children first. What an oxymoron.

Merriam-Webster definition of “oxymoron” includes: We must also inform you that an oxymoron and a moron have little in common except that both words come from the Greek word for "foolish" (mōros).

I think the use of the word “foolish” is being more than kind- and being foolish!

What amazes me more than anything after doing divorces for 31 years is the fact that so many people “fall in love,” “have babies together” and then one day one or both of them hate each other. Really?

And it doesn’t end there. One of them files for divorce and wants the ultimate revenge because that person is so angry and you can’t even figure out why. (P.S. that person is angry because that person has low self-esteem) Okay, enough of my ranting and raving about such a large percentage of the population it scares me.

I digressed.

I will have to say that there are some cases in which custody issues are REAL. One parent is just not fit to be a custodian. However, that is not the case in a majority of the cases. The purpose of this post is to talk about the majority.

Anger drives division and division drives a custody battle when it is unwarranted. So, what is the parent to do who is on the receiving end. Try to get a mediator involved. Many times, a mediator can diffuse that anger that is driving the parent who wants to create a custody battle. And hopefully, this can be done sooner rather than later. The longer the divorce drags on with an angry parent, the worse the custody battle becomes. Unfortunately, the result usually is a lot of money spent on lawyers (and sometimes private custody evaluators and therapists) when the ultimate result is a settlement of joint legal custody.

This is the saddest of all results- not because the outcome was good for the children, but because the path to get there was damaging to the children and costly to the parents.

If you find yourself in this position, do not wait. Try to convince your spouse (or find family members who will help you convince him/her) that mediation is the best way to go early on to diffuse the anger and avoid an unwarranted custody battle.

For more information, visit: https://attorneylindasubbloie.com/divorce.html

What If I Can’t Afford A Divorce Lawyer?Let’s face it. Divorce lawyers are expensive. Many people just don’t have the mo...
06/28/2021

What If I Can’t Afford A Divorce Lawyer?

Let’s face it. Divorce lawyers are expensive. Many people just don’t have the money. Retainers run from $2500 to hundreds of thousands, depending on the location, the lawyer and the client’s assets and custody issues. And just because you can beg, borrow and steal the retainer, that doesn’t mean that will cover the case. Most times it does not.

However, there are some options if you have no choice and just can’t get the funds together for the retainer and beyond. First of all, you can represent yourself. This does sound daunting and I have to admit it won’t be easy. However, the Connecticut Judicial Branch gives you most of the tools you need to represent yourself. Go to the website at https://www.jud.ct.gov/. Here you will find a divorce navigator and manual with all the information that will help you along. If you do decide to represent yourself, sign up for electronic filing (as opposed to bringing the papers to the court house). This will make your life a lot easier.

As an alternative or additional tool, you can hire a legal coach. Although there are not a lot of lawyers that are willing to coach you through your divorce, I certainly provide such a service. Your case stays in your name and I just assist you in the procedure, drafting and reviewing documents and overall legal advice. I just stay in the background and you pay for whatever services I can provide you. Legal coaching saves you a lot of money and provides you with not only good advice, but peace of mind.

DIVORCE ALTERNATIVES: Legal Coaching, DIY Divorce, Legal Document Assistance, Collaborative Law, Online Divorce Mediation Services and more.

For more about cost effective divorce alternatives, click link: https://attorneylindasubbloie.com/

Questions? Ask Linda, call: (203) 562-2961

The Low Cost Divorce AlternativeLegal Coaching: An alternative to the traditional Attorney-Client ArrangementLegal coach...
06/28/2021

The Low Cost Divorce Alternative

Legal Coaching: An alternative to the traditional Attorney-Client Arrangement

Legal coaching is a great alternative available to those who either can not afford to hire a divorce lawyer or who is a real DIYer who wants to do most of the work her/himself.

As a legal coach, I provide the services you need. I give you legal advice about your case, I provide you with help filling out the forms and drafting the appropriate documents, and I guide you through the process, that frankly, can be daunting. Since the start of the pandemic, the Connecticut family court system has been completely overhauled. The old system is history. And as of the writing of this post, we are still appearing in court remotely- via video.

Reach out to me if you want more information about the legal coaching services I offer. There are not a lot of divorce attorneys who provide this service and it’s a great alternative to the traditional family law attorney-client arrangement.

For more about Legal Coaching: https://attorneylindasubbloie.com/

Questions? Ask Linda, call: (203) 562-2961

Divorce: Staying strong to the finishI JUST WANT TO GET THIS OVER WITH! One of the most common mistakes I see in divorce...
04/26/2021

Divorce: Staying strong to the finish

I JUST WANT TO GET THIS OVER WITH!
One of the most common mistakes I see in divorce cases is the client becoming weary and willing to cave in because he or she “just wants to get this over with,” or “I just want to get this done.”
This is a fatal mistake. The reason? The other party is feeling the same way! What a great opportunity to get what you want, or at least more than what they were willing to agree to.
It’s almost like buying the “dip” in the stock market. You wouldn’t want to buy a stock at all time highs- you look for the all-time lows. Well, if your spouse is becoming weary because of the process (and so are you- it’s inevitable) then why not “buy on the dip” and dig your heels in. It’s not costing you any money and you surely will reap the benefits when you settle the case.
The problem is, most people can’t do it because they let their emotions drive their decisions.
Negotiating a divorce should be a business deal, not an emotional deal. The problem most people have is that they don’t know how to negotiate business deals. They do know how to negotiate emotional deals because that is what they are used to in their marriages.
Let me give you an example:
Mary: “Joe, I’ll pick up the pizza if you take the kids to basketball practice.”
Joe: “ I always get stuck with taking the kids to basketball practice. I’m sick of it. I’ll pick up the pizza”
Mary: “Joe, I hate waiting in the line to pick up the kids at basketball practice….”” And so on.
Now put Mary and Joe in a room and negotiate the sale of their house… Oh brother.
Mary: “I don’t like the way the buyers said that they hate the color of our house.”
Joe: “I don’t like real estate agent- she seems snippy to me. And the beat goes on.
Try to regroup and understand that divorce should be a business deal, not an emotional deal, even though it’s an emotional crisis. You have to separate the emotion out, otherwise, you risk the “I just want to get it over syndrome.”
Just sayin’.
For more information, visit: https://attorneylindasubbloie.com/home.html

VALENTINES DAY HAPPY OR VALENTINES DAY BLUES If you are reading this blog then you are either contemplating divorce and ...
02/15/2021

VALENTINES DAY HAPPY OR VALENTINES DAY BLUES
If you are reading this blog then you are either contemplating divorce and are floundering in or are already entrenched in the process. The blues are the blues but there is something to say about the happy. Do you have children born of this sinking ship? If so, then bless them with your love on this day of hearts. If not, do youhave parents still with us in this dimension? If so, then bless them with your love on this day of sweets. No matter who you have in your life who is still loyal, count your blessings and love them like you never did before. Happy Valentines Day from me. -Linda

Happy New Year 2021The start of a new year is a time to think about and believe in new beginnings. If your life is chang...
01/25/2021

Happy New Year 2021
The start of a new year is a time to think about and believe in new beginnings. If your life is changing as a result of divorce, this is your opportunity to make the best of change and choose your new path into the future... Happy New Year!

Divorce Questions? Ask Attorney Linda A. Subbloie. Call today and get the answers you need to make a fresh start in 2021.
Call: (203) 562-2961

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Post Date: Dec. 1, 2020Merry Christmas!Holiday Season 2020: During these unusual times, wishing all a very Merry Christm...
01/25/2021

Post Date: Dec. 1, 2020
Merry Christmas!
Holiday Season 2020: During these unusual times, wishing all a very Merry Christmas and a Happy Holiday Season from the Law Office of Linda A. Subbloie (Divorce Attorney, New Haven, CT).

Legal Services: Divorce Attorney, Divorce and Family Lawyer, Divorce Mediation Attorney, Online Divorce, Mediation Services, Divorce and Separation Lawyer, Divorce and Custody Attorney, Divorce and Legal Coaching, Divorce Document Assistance, Collaborative Law Divorce Attorney, Divorce and Child Support Lawyer, Divorce and Alimony Attorney

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