06/05/2026
You can say the EXACT same thing three different ways and your co-parent may perceive them very differently.
Compare these:
💬 “So you forgot the soccer cleats again. Cool.”
💬 “The cleats are not in the bag. Please send them.”
💬 “Hey, looks like the cleats aren’t in the bag. Can you make sure to send them to practice?”
Same issue. Same request. Very different tone.
One sounds passive-aggressive. One sounds cold. One sounds neutral and cooperative.
Successful co-parenting is not just about what you communicate. It is also about how your communication is perceived. That applies to texts, emails, and every day interactions.
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