07/12/2021
Fertility lawyers aren't just for people with "infertility." Shanna Downey Ballinger, attorney at Simms Russell Law in our Fertility Law practice, shares her own experience below.
"It was 6 years ago today that the entire course of my life that I had mapped in my head totally changed. On July 12, 2015, I was being discharged from the hospital after the birth of my youngest son. He was still in the Intermediate Care Nursey and wouldn't come home for a few more days. (Don't worry! He's fine now!) When my OB/GYN came in the room to discharge me, he had some advice I was not expecting. "Mrs. Ballinger," he said. "I would advise that you do not have any more children. I think this baby should be your last." His reason? I have a chronic illness called Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome (POTS), which was always exacerbated when I was pregnant. I would frequently lose consciousness, which just isn't safe when you're pregnant, especially if you're already caring for two other small children.
My world was rocked. My husband and I always planned to have three children. I had boys, and I wanted a daughter! I knew my pregnancies were hard, but I never thought of them as "dangerous." But I knew my doctor was right. We have two beautiful sons, and though we've settled into life as a family of four, that baby fever still hits me. (So far, I've been treating it by adopting new puppies, but I don't think my husband will let me have another!) If and when we decide to add to our family, I know we'll need the assistance of a fertility lawyer because carrying another baby myself just is not an option."
If you need help adding to your own, call Shanna at (502) 709-9900. You can rest assured knowing she understands.