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CURED: Doctors Called Them Sick. The Remedy Was Rebellion.https://www.spiriolaw.com/The-Latest-News-Blog/2026/6/CURED-Do...
06/03/2026

CURED: Doctors Called Them Sick. The Remedy Was Rebellion.

https://www.spiriolaw.com/The-Latest-News-Blog/2026/6/CURED-Doctors-Called-Them-Sick-The-Remedy-Was-Rebellion

I had the privilege of attending a talk and screening with the writer/director of the documentary Cured, which explores the pivotal, grassroots campaign that forced the American Psychiatric Association (APA) to remove homosexuality from its manual of mental illnesses in 1973. It was a great event!

You can watch the film on Amazon, iTunes, and Xfinity.

Selected excerpt(s), film poster and main picture courtesy of Cured and the Cured Documentary Trailer

Concetta Spirio. A Compassionate Collaborative Divorce Attorney, Mediator & Peacemaker Providing The Highest Level of Legal Representation For Over 35 Years.

A Necessary National Conversation About A Woman’s Risk Of Being Killed By An Intimate Partner Is Highest In The Weeks An...
06/01/2026

A Necessary National Conversation About A Woman’s Risk Of Being Killed By An Intimate Partner Is Highest In The Weeks And Months Around A Separation

https://www.spiriolaw.com/The-Latest-News-Blog/2026/6/A-Necessary-National-Conversation-About-A-Woman%E2%80%99s-Risk-Of-Being-Killed-By-An-Intimate-Partner-Is-Highest-In-The-Weeks-And-Months-Around-A-Separation

A judge had ordered Justin Fairfax, the former lieutenant governor of Virginia, to move out of the house where on April 16 he killed his wife and then himself. On April 19, in Shreveport, La., Shamar Elkins shot his wife, a second woman, and eight children the day before he was due in divorce court. These are not anomalies. They are data points in a crisis that has persisted for generations.

The two cases have catalyzed a necessary national conversation about the fact that a woman’s risk of being killed by an intimate partner is highest in the weeks and months around a separation. But that conversation must not flatten the racial dimensions of this crisis. All three adult victims were Black women. Both men were Black. And while domestic violence crosses every racial and economic line, the data are unambiguous: Black women bear a disproportionate share of its consequences.

According to a 2025 study by the Violence Policy Center, Black women are killed by men at twice the rate of their white counterparts. Domesticviolence homicide is a leading cause of homicide of women, accounting for 30% to 40% of femicides; the majority were killed with fi****ms. A separate Centers for Disease Control and Prevention analysis found that more than 4 in 10 Black women experience physical violence from an intimate partner during their lifetimes—a rate exceeding that for any other demographic.

Click the link for the entire article...

Entire article courtesy of Earl Smith & Angela J. Hattery
Smith is a senior research fellow at, and Hattery co-founder of, the University of Delaware’s Center for the Study and Prevention of Gender-Based Violence”
Royalty-free photo courtesy of Google’s Gemini

Concetta Spirio. A Compassionate Collaborative Divorce Attorney, Mediator & Peacemaker Providing The Highest Level of Legal Representation For Over 35 Years.

Another Successful Panel On Finances, Estate Planning, & More For LGBTQ+ Adultshttps://www.spiriolaw.com/The-Latest-News...
05/26/2026

Another Successful Panel On Finances, Estate Planning, & More For LGBTQ+ Adults

https://www.spiriolaw.com/The-Latest-News-Blog/2026/5/Another-Successful-Panel-On-Finances-Estate-Planning-More-For-LGBTQ-Adults

This was our successful panel from last Wednesday's presentation featuring guidance on finances, estate planning, and more for LGBTQ+ adults, held at The Bristal at Garden City.

The event was well attended and was extremely informative.

Looking forward to the next one!

Concetta Spirio. A Compassionate Collaborative Divorce Attorney, Mediator & Peacemaker Providing The Highest Level of Legal Representation For Over 35 Years.

MAY 20th REMINDER: Proud To Be One Of The Featured Speakers At "How Every LGBTQ+ Person Should Plan Ahead"https://www.sp...
05/17/2026

MAY 20th REMINDER: Proud To Be One Of The Featured Speakers At "How Every LGBTQ+ Person Should Plan Ahead"

https://www.spiriolaw.com/The-Latest-News-Blog/2026/5/MAY-20th-REMINDER-Proud-To-Be-One-Of-The-Featured-Speakers-At-How-Every-LGBTQ-Person-Should-Plan-Ahead

The Nassau County Bar Association and The Bristal at Garden City invite you to a presentation featuring guidance on finances, estate planning, and more for LGBTQ+ adults.

Enjoy dinner and an expert discussion during an informative and engaging evening focused on the topics that matter most, where you'll get answers to important questions like:

•What documents should you have in place if a partner is hospitalized or passes away?
•What are your legal rights as a couple married or unmarried?
•What is the current outlook for same-sex marriage?
•How can you protect your finances, assets, and future?

Learn all this and more from a panel of experienced attorneys.

Event Info:

Wednesday, May 20 6:00PM - 8:00PM
The Bristal at Garden City
1001 Axinn Avenue
Garden City, NY 11530

Concetta Spirio. A Compassionate Collaborative Divorce Attorney, Mediator & Peacemaker Providing The Highest Level of Legal Representation For Over 35 Years.

The Art Of Building A Great Marriage: 9 Basic Habits Every Husband Should Masterhttps://www.spiriolaw.com/The-Latest-New...
05/11/2026

The Art Of Building A Great Marriage: 9 Basic Habits Every Husband Should Master

https://www.spiriolaw.com/The-Latest-News-Blog/2026/5/The-Art-Of-Building-A-Great-Marriage-9-Basic-Habits-Every-Husband-Should-Master

Here are some simple, powerful things every husband can do to create a partnership that truly lasts...

•Encourage your wife
•Become the spiritual leader of your home
•Have healthy, encouraging male friendships
•Speak kindly of your wife to her
•Speak kindly of your wife to others
•Help out around the house without complaining
•Invite her to join in doing something you like
•Make sure to take time for yourself
•Be present

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Stu Gray, yourtango(dot)com
Royalty-free photo courtesy of Google’s Gemini

Concetta Spirio. A Compassionate Collaborative Divorce Attorney, Mediator & Peacemaker Providing The Highest Level of Legal Representation For Over 35 Years.

Proud To Be One Of The Featured Speakers At "How Every LGBTQ+ Person Should Plan Ahead"https://www.spiriolaw.com/The-Lat...
05/06/2026

Proud To Be One Of The Featured Speakers At "How Every LGBTQ+ Person Should Plan Ahead"

https://www.spiriolaw.com/The-Latest-News-Blog/2026/5/Proud-To-Be-One-Of-The-Featured-Speakers-At-How-Every-LGBTQ-Person-Should-Plan-Ahead

The Nassau County Bar Association and The Bristal at Garden City invite you to a presentation featuring guidance on finances, estate planning, and more for LGBTQ+ adults.

Enjoy dinner and an expert discussion during an informative and engaging evening focused on the topics that matter most, where you'll get answers to important questions like:

•What documents should you have in place if a partner is hospitalized or passes away?
•What are your legal rights as a couplemarried or unmarried?
•What is the current outlook for same-sex marriage?
•How can you protect your finances, assets, and future?

Learn all this and more from a panel of experienced attorneys.

Event Info:

Wednesday, May 20 6:00PM - 8:00PM
The Bristal at Garden City
1001 Axinn Avenue
Garden City, NY 11530

email Kerri Winans Kaley at [email protected] to register

Concetta Spirio. A Compassionate Collaborative Divorce Attorney, Mediator & Peacemaker Providing The Highest Level of Legal Representation For Over 35 Years.

11 Behaviors Only Found In Happily Married Husbandshttps://www.spiriolaw.com/The-Latest-News-Blog/2026/5/11-Behaviors-On...
05/03/2026

11 Behaviors Only Found In Happily Married Husbands

https://www.spiriolaw.com/The-Latest-News-Blog/2026/5/11-Behaviors-Only-Found-In-Happily-Married-Husbands

There are all kinds of behaviors and qualities that make a good partnership, all of which are different depending on the people and circumstances. From a husband being willing to be influenced by his partner to prioritizing quality time during the mundane seasons of life, certain priorities make all the difference for a couple's well-being and happiness.

However, on an individual level, there are also behaviors only found in happily married husbands. They craft happiness from being present and leaning into the hard parts of marriage, and it's that effort that truly transforms the relationship for the better.

Here are 11 behaviors only found in happily married husbands...

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Zayda Slabberkoom, yourtango(dot)com
Royalty-free photo courtesy of Google’s Gemini

Concetta Spirio. A Compassionate Collaborative Divorce Attorney, Mediator & Peacemaker Providing The Highest Level of Legal Representation For Over 35 Years.

When Is Divorce a Solution to Marriage Problems?https://www.spiriolaw.com/The-Latest-News-Blog/2026/4/When-Is-Divorce-a-...
04/27/2026

When Is Divorce a Solution to Marriage Problems?

https://www.spiriolaw.com/The-Latest-News-Blog/2026/4/When-Is-Divorce-a-Solution-to-Marriage-Problems

Building and sustaining a loving marriage is one of the most—maybe even the most—important life focus. Why? Much research has established that marriage generally brings major benefits to participants' lives. Married folks, statistically, have better physical health, enjoy more feelings of well-being (emotional health), and even end up better off financially.

Still, when marriage partners argue, engage in behaviors that their spouse finds unacceptable, or repeatedly bump up against differences that cause ongoing tensions, the conflicts can result in a marriage that creates more stress than satisfaction.

With that in mind, Is divorce ever a legitimate part of a win-win solution? Here's some current thinking on that question.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Jessica Schrader, psychologytoday(dot)com
Royalty-free photo courtesy of Google’s Gemini

Concetta Spirio. A Compassionate Collaborative Divorce Attorney, Mediator & Peacemaker Providing The Highest Level of Legal Representation For Over 35 Years.

11 Things People In Bad Marriages Do When They're Alone That They Never Tell Anyone Abouthttps://www.spiriolaw.com/The-L...
04/20/2026

11 Things People In Bad Marriages Do When They're Alone That They Never Tell Anyone About

https://www.spiriolaw.com/The-Latest-News-Blog/2026/4/11-Things-People-In-Bad-Marriages-Do-When-Theyre-Alone-That-They-Never-Tell-Anyone-About

Considering that miserable, bad marriages are often fueled by a fear of loneliness, family obligations, and history, it's not surprising that many couples and partners feel entirely isolated and alone most of the time. They're grappling with a million inner feelings and complex situations, from shame to disconnection, that make it impossible for them to feel like anyone could understand what they're going through.

Even the small things people in bad marriages do when they're alone that they never tell anyone about don't have to be fueled by guilt and shame. So, if that's you, let this be your reminder that you're not a bad person because you're in a bad relationship. Your circumstances don't have to define you. Let them remind you of what you deserve and what needs to be said, instead of stewing in blame, resentment, and guilt forever.

Here are 11 things people in bad marriages do when they're alone that they never tell anyone about.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Zayda Slabbekoorn, yourtango(dot)com
Royalty-free photo courtesy of Google’s Gemini

Concetta Spirio. A Compassionate Collaborative Divorce Attorney, Mediator & Peacemaker Providing The Highest Level of Legal Representation For Over 35 Years.

Relationship Expert Dr. Julie Gottman Says The 'Right Partner' Will Always Check These 3 Boxeshttps://www.spiriolaw.com/...
04/12/2026

Relationship Expert Dr. Julie Gottman Says The 'Right Partner' Will Always Check These 3 Boxes

https://www.spiriolaw.com/The-Latest-News-Blog/2026/4/Relationship-Expert-Dr-Julie-Gottman-Says-The-Right-Partner-Will-Always-Check-These-3-Boxes

A question that often lingers in the minds of those dating is whether their partner is the right person.

There might be a lot of personal deal breakers to figure this out, but world-renowned psychologist and researcher Dr. Julie Gottman shared three reflections to consider: interaction, respect, and reliability.

Elaborating on how to find out about these factors, Gottman noted that they can be tested and checked in everyday settings.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Angelina C, Dsouza, scoop.upworthy.com
Royalty-free photo courtesy of Pixabay

Concetta Spirio. A Compassionate Collaborative Divorce Attorney, Mediator & Peacemaker Providing The Highest Level of Legal Representation For Over 35 Years.

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