10/27/2024
Life is short
At my church reunion were friends I had known since I was a little girl. Our moms were friends, and we played together as they sat for coffee. Some of us went to school together Kindergarten through 12th Grade. Talking to a friend who I hadn’t seen in person since high school she told me how good it was to see old friends because “life is short”.
I am 14 years older than my dad was when he died. My children, nieces and nephews are all older than my brother was when he died at 20. At the reunion, some of my friends had canes and few had walkers. Life is short and we are fortunate that we are still here to enjoy it.
Life is short. We don’t know how many years we will have. 18? (my friend) 20? (my brother) 53? (My dad) 66? My husband) 91 (my Mom(? We don’t know what troubles they will bring, cancer, Alzheimer’s, heart failure, special needs children. We do know we need to plan our estates, so we take care of those we leave behind. Especially, those who live with disability, special needs and special challenges (addiction etc.). Trusts can be designed to make sure the money is managed and takes care of the loved ones you leave behind. Loved one’s who are receiving public benefits like SSI and Medi-Cal MUST have the protection of a Special Needs Trust, so they can have their benefits and money to pay for all the things public benefits don’t cover.
If you have loved ones you want to protect give me a call.
Picture is the last I know of with my brother and dad.