03/10/2023
False!
Under New York State law, when someone in New York State loses mental capacity and needs something legal or financial done on their behalf, NOBODY would automatically gain authority to act on their behalf. A parent, child, sibling, and even a spouse would not be able to act for an incapacitated individual.
The only way someone would be able to act for another individual is if the incapacitated person had signed a Power of Attorney when they were mentally able to do so, designating someone they trusted (such as a spouse, parent or child), the authority to handle their legal and financial affairs.
The power of attorney would need to explicitly provide the authority for the actions that an agent would need to do on behalf of the principal, and that is why having an elder law attorney prepare the power of attorney is so important. Elder law attorneys are very familiar with the types of actions that an incapacitated person may need legal or financial assistance with.