10/21/2026
If the risk-based approach hasn't moved your spouse, it may be time to try a completely different angle.
Instead of leading with what could go wrong with estate planning, lead with what you both want.
Most couples, even when they're stuck on different pages about process, share the same values underneath. You both want your children cared for by the right people. You both want financial decisions handled by someone you trust. You both want to avoid leaving a mess for the other person to sort out at an already-hard time.
Framing estate planning as an act of love rather than a response to fear often lands completely differently. This isn't about paperwork. It's about making sure the people you love most are protected no matter what.
In case you missed it this week, here's what to do when you're not on the same page about estate planning.
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