08/27/2026
When people hear about families fighting after someone dies, they usually assume it's about money.
A lot of the time, it isn't.
It's about uncertainty.
One child thinks Mom wanted the house sold.
Another is convinced she wanted to keep it.
Someone assumes they're in charge.
Someone else thought they were supposed to handle everything.
Nobody is trying to do the wrong thing.
They're trying to figure out what Mom or Dad actually wanted.
That's where the conflict starts.
I've seen families spend months arguing over questions that could have been answered with a good estate plan.
Estate planning isn't just about deciding who gets what.
It's about making your wishes clear so your family isn't left guessing when you're no longer here to answer the questions.
If your family had to settle your estate tomorrow, would they know exactly what you wanted, or would they be left trying to figure it out? If you're not sure, it may be time to review your estate plan.