Phoenix Legal Solutions

06/10/2026

This headline should make every parent in Colorado pause. 🛑👇

The Colorado Supreme Court just ruled that judges can reduce a parent's time with their child down to almost ZERO, and it’s only considered a "modification"—not a "restriction."
What does that mean in plain English? It means a judge no longer has to meet a super high legal standard (like proving a parent is dangerous or abusive) to take away nearly all of their nights with their kids. They just have to decide it’s in the "best interest" of the child.

This makes the family court system an incredibly risky place for moms and dads. With no strict legal boundaries keeping a judge from slashing your time, walking into a courtroom is like rolling the dice on your relationship with your kids.

This is exactly why couples need to stay out of court. Divorce is incredibly hard, but letting a stranger in a black robe make rules for your family is a massive gamble. If you are separating or divorcing, please consider mediation. Work together, negotiate behind closed doors, and set your own terms. Keep the power where it belongs: with the parents, not the system. 💔👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

05/01/2026

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02/01/2026

Unpopular Opinion. But this goes for both sexes…..I’ve seen it so many times either both men and women……..

01/09/2026

For all you GenXers out there. There is some truth in this.

08/19/2025

⚠️ Unfollow the Free Advice. ⚖️
Your divorce is not your sister’s, your friend’s, or your coworker’s. And it definitely isn’t a Facebook thread. 👀

Taking advice from well-meaning people who aren’t divorce professionals can create unrealistic expectations, emotional confusion, and roadblocks to settlement.

Just because it happened that way for them doesn’t mean it will—or should—for you.

💡 Every divorce has its own facts, finances, and family dynamics.
Get real advice tailored to your situation, not someone else’s story.

Check out TikTokDivorceDoc’s video.

08/16/2025

From Chaos to Clarity: Why I Do What I Do

Yesterday, I found myself telling a friend how everything I’ve been through has led me here — to the work I do today.

From hiding under tables at age 4 while my mom was being abused…
To growing up in deep financial and emotional instability…
To navigating my own difficult marriages and being chewed up by the Colorado family law system.

I didn’t just wake up one day and become a divorce mediator, CDFA, and coach. I lived the chaos. I felt the fear. I paid the price — emotionally, financially, and spiritually.

That’s why I’m so passionate about making divorce more accessible. I intentionally undercharge for my services — because no one should have to go bankrupt just to get out of a broken marriage.

Yes, divorce isn’t rocket science. But when you’re dealing with real estate, retirement accounts, pensions, kids, and the emotions that come with all of it — it can feel like navigating a minefield blindfolded.

That’s where I come in.

This isn’t just a career. This is a calling. And my “brand” is built from lived experience, hard-won wisdom, and the absolute belief that everyone deserves a way out that doesn’t leave them wrecked.

If you or someone you love is going through it — know this: there is a practical, affordable, and empowering path forward. And I’m here for it. 💼💪

08/15/2025

💔 Holding On Hurts More Than Letting Go 💬

As a divorce mediator, I’ve witnessed countless couples cling to toxic marriages—out of fear, guilt, or the hope that things might magically improve. But here’s the hard truth:

Staying in a relationship that drains you emotionally, mentally, or even physically doesn’t save your family—it slowly erodes it.

🤯 Constant conflict doesn’t build resilience in children; it builds anxiety.
🧠 Chronic stress from an unhealthy marriage can impact your health and sense of self.
💬 Silence and resentment don’t equal peace—they’re just loud in a different way.

Letting go doesn’t mean failure. It means choosing peace over pain, growth over guilt, and a future over fear. Mediation offers a path that’s respectful, constructive, and focused on what matters most: healing and moving forward.

You deserve a life where love feels safe, not suffocating.

08/05/2025

Next set of CEs incoming……although this course is geared towards “women”, I already know this information will be beneficial for EVERYONE getting divorced!

07/25/2025

https://www.lawweekcolorado.com/article/you-were-warned-colorado-court-of-appeals-outlines-potential-sanctions-for-misuse-of-generative-ai/

Colorado now has precedent to start sanctioning parties that use fake caselaw to cite support in their pleadings. No more using AI blindly y’all! “You have been warned”.

Spencer Fane partner Jacob Hollars explains an appellate decision that paved the way for potential court sanctions for the misuse of AI.

06/30/2025

Post-separation abuse is real—and it doesn’t discriminate by gender.

In my work, I’ve recently witnessed two separate situations where the abusive dynamics didn’t end with the relationship. Instead, the harmful behaviors spilled over, impacting not only the former partner but also others around them—including myself.

This serves as a powerful reminder: abuse rarely stays contained. It ripples outward, often harming people who are simply trying to help or support healing.

We must continue to speak up, set boundaries, and hold individuals accountable. Only by addressing post-separation abuse head-on can we begin to create safer outcomes for everyone involved.