10/10/2026
Homeschool parents, you are in a prime position to advise your child. You have intimate knowledge of your child's academic career. Even if your child isn't sure what he wants to do next, you know what lights him up and what he avoids. You're the front row in the audience, so you know what his God-given talents are. And you can help him see areas in which he has potential.
Not having a clearly defined path for the future can feel a little unnerving, but God has a purpose for your child. He has good work for him to do. You have the privilege of helping your child find a place in the world where he can love God by serving others.
My advice for you is twofold. First, show your belief that God does have a plan for your child by engaging in prayer. Not because God will answer you with a special message (He doesn't), but because prayer will demonstrate your complete trust that God will reveal the path for your child at the right time.
And second, ask lots of questions. Call admissions offices. Reply to recruitment emails. Set up meetings with department heads. Read the catalogs. Visit the campus. Talk to people. And ask more questions.
Yesterday I had a phone conversation with someone at the university where my son wants to attend. I had an entire page full of questions based on what I knew about my son, and this gracious woman talked me through everything I asked. My son was there to listen in and ask any questions he had too. It really cleared up a lot for both of us, and we actually have a plan now for moving forward.
Recruiters and admissions personnel exist to provide answers. You are perfectly placed to assist your child in this process. Don't be afraid to ask questions to get the answers you need!