10/18/2026
I’ve been married and I’ve been divorced. I’ve had to rebuild myself entirely during marriage and after, personally and in business.....multiple times. And if I had the chance to go back in time, I’d do it all over again without changing a thing.
👏🏼Life is brighter on the other side of CHOOSING YOURSELF.
And here's a message for the ladies: You can do it alone. I promise.
Do I have a man living with me to fix my master bathroom toilet that’s been running every 30 to 45 minutes like it’s got somewhere important to be? No.
Do I know what’s wrong with it? Not a fu***ng clue.
Do I know how to fix it? Absolutely not.
But I have YouTube, a screwdriver, and the completely unearned confidence of a 57-year-old man named Rick who owns a leaf blower and refers to everything as “a quick fix.”
In approximately 20 minutes, I’ll either have a quiet toilet or an indoor swimming pool. All jokes aside, I can always call a plumber. Problem solved.
So yes, I’m divorced. My toilet is making mysterious noises, and my plumbing knowledge begins and ends with “lefty loosey, righty tighty.”
But my home is peaceful, my nervous system is regulated, my heart is full and the only thing running away from working on itself in this house is the toilet.
Whatever it is, go make yourself happy. 👏🏼