Harlow Law Office, Ltd.

05/28/2026

To cheese or not to cheese?
To ketchup or not to catsup?
So many choices- how do you like yours?

05/27/2026

What state are you in?
Do you know what laws are in place to decide for you and your legacy? Does it disinherit a spouse? Children?

05/26/2026

Fun while Networking? Who does that?

Well.....
me!

If it's not fun, how do I make it fun? Am I a naturally fun person? Do I have that pollyanna-ish outlook on life that makes so many people think bleh!?

I've been to a lot of painful networking events and meetings. Some in person, some online. Two things I've noticed. No one wants to do it and no one knows what to say or what their 'ask' is.

So I'm a natural introvert - hello law school- and my kids will tell you I am not very fun and my husband will say that I am definitely not pollyanna.

How do I make it fun? I gamify it. Yes, I used to use my brain to gamify it. 'Can I get this person's card?' was an early one. (I said painful, right?)Sometimes it's more of a 'can I get the grumpy old man to crack a smile?' Sometimes it is more of an on-the-fly ai prompt of how to make it fun. Somebody have fun socks? How do I get that into my ask?

The deeper the relationships, the easier it has gotten. Do I still run into groups of grumpy old men who make the guys from the muppets look like pollyanna? Absolutely. Do I intentionally try to 'turn' them? Of course. Do most of them know how they come across? Probably not.

All of this to say-yes sometimes I have to work at it. But the biggest part is that I continue to show up and decide I'm going to get some kind of 'win' whether it's business or personal. Sometimes I share with friends what nonsense I'm up to-co-conspirators make it so much more fun!

If you ever want to join an adventure with me, reach out and let me know.

05/25/2026

05/22/2026

Who gets his telekinesis powers? (i'd like to move things around with my brain, probably my husband too!)
What about his ability to force healing on others? (What that bidding war would look like?)
His ability to talk with and calm dangerous animals? (seems like an amazing ability for another entity to have...)

What would you like? How would you handle it? Would you want a judge to chime in on your ability to 'take possession' of what a 50 year old left to you?

A good time to plan is the same as planting trees-20 years ago was best. Second best? Today.

Schedule your review today. Yes you can tell me it was telekinesis if you do it online. I won't tell anyone.

05/21/2026

There aren't any more baby firsts, help them with their adulting firsts.
Schedule a review of your 'child's' plan today.

05/15/2026

Before you fire up that grill-
do you know what happens to your kids if the grill goes kablooey?
is it written down?
is it legal?

05/15/2026

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