Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC

09/19/2023

Are you facing divorce, and anger seems to taint every decision you make? Litigation will not help. It sets you up to strike out at your spouse to get back at her or him. Litigation puts you in a position for combat, and this will take a toll.

Why not try another method? One that keeps the combativeness down and puts the focus on moving forward with your life.

Contact the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC to learn more about alternatives to litigation. Go to https://www.ldurstlaw.com/ or follow this link to schedule a consultation: https://calendly.com/ldurst-law/consultations

09/13/2023

Contact the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC to learn more about a collaborative divorce at (703) 443-4762 or follow this link to schedule a consultation: https://calendly.com/ldurst-law/consultations

09/13/2023

09/06/2023

Are you facing divorce and do not where to start or what to expect? Maybe you are already in the process and need help or more information. Attend the Divorce & Alternative Dispute Resolution seminar to hear from an attorney, financial expert and mental expert on the issues involved in a divorce and ways to approach them. Register at https://www.ldurstlaw.com/divorce-and-alternative-dispute-resolution.html

Li-Shann Durst focuses on alternative dispute resolution methods to resolve divorce issues.

09/03/2023

On Labor Day we celebrate and honor the nation's workers and their contributions to the well-being of the country.

Thank you!

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08/29/2023

Contact the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC to learn more about a collaborative divorce at (703) 443-4762 or follow this link to schedule a consultation: https://calendly.com/ldurst-law/consultations

These compassionate professionals understand the unique needs of children during divorce. They provide a safe space for open communication, actively listening to your children's voices, concerns, and preferences.

Their specialized expertise helps you develop healthy co-parenting dynamics that promote stability, and consistency for your children.

Visit www.collaborativelawdmv.com or tap the link in our bio to discover how to navigate the unique challenges of longer-term marriages, financial complexities, and redefining your future.

08/22/2023

Are you or someone you know facing divorce? Attend the Divorce & Alternative Dispute Resolution seminar and find out how you can divorce in a more respectful manner, with a focus on prioritizing your children and moving on with your lives. You will learn about the legal, financial and emotional aspects of divorce from an attorney, financial professional and mental health professional. Register at: https://www.ldurstlaw.com/divorce-and-alternative-dispute-resolution.html

08/18/2023

08/15/2023

Contact the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC to learn more about a collaborative divorce at (703) 443-4762 or follow this link to schedule a consultation: https://calendly.com/ldurst-law/consultations

Financial Neutrals bring expertise in financial matters to the Collaborative Process and provide a comprehensive analysis of your financial landscape.

These dedicated professionals ensure transparency, accuracy, and efficiency by neutrally compiling and explaining financial information, enabling a clearer understanding for all parties.

Visit www.collaborativelawdmv.com or tap the link in our bio to discover the benefits of a solution-focused approach to conflict resolution.

08/15/2023

What you need to know to maintain your financial and emotional well-being during and after a divorce.

08/09/2023

Contact the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC at (703) 443-4762 or follow this link to schedule a consultation: https://calendly.com/ldurst-law/consultations

07/18/2023

Contact the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC at (703) 443-4762 or follow this link to schedule a consultation: https://calendly.com/ldurst-law/consultations

The Collaborative Law process helps you address conflict with a compassionate and constructive approach.

Discover the transformative benefits of Collaborative Law in Maryland, Virginia, and D.C.

Tap the link in our bio or visit www.collaborativelawdmv.com to find skilled professionals who specialize in Collaborative Law. Take control of your divorce with a solution-focused mindset.

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07/12/2023

Contact the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC at (703) 443-4762 or follow this link to schedule a consultation: https://calendly.com/ldurst-law/consultations to learn more about a Collaborative Divorce.

The Collaborative Law process is designed to prioritize the needs of the family. By working together during divorce, the couple defines and implements a settlement that best meets their unique needs and those of their children.

Goals of Collaborative Law:

✔️ Fostering open communication
✔️ Promoting cooperation
✔️ Finding creative solutions that are fair and durable

Visit www.collaborativelawdmv.com or tap the link in our bio to learn more about how the Collaborative Law process can benefit you and your family when facing separation and divorce.

07/06/2023

Visit the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC at ldurstlaw.com or call 703.443.4762 to learn more about a collaborative divorce.

Want to reach a divorce agreement that feels fair and is durable? With a focus on cooperation and respectful communication, Collaborative Law empowers you to work with your partner to find creative solutions that meet both of your needs.

By prioritizing mutual understanding and problem-solving, you can create agreements tailored to your unique situation, and pave the way for a more positive future.

Visit www.collaborativelawdmv.com or tap the link in our bio to learn more about how the Collaborative Law process can benefit you and your family when facing separation and divorce.

06/29/2023

FIVE WAYS TO PUT YOUR CHILD FIRST IN YOUR DIVORCE
1) Cooperate with the other parent regarding custody and parenting time.
2) Do not “bad mouth” your spouse while your child is in your care.
3) Remember, it is natural for a child to want to stay where the child is accustomed. Talk with your child about any changes in his or her living arrangement.
4) Keep exchanges of the child brief and refrain from arguing in front of the child.
5) Do not involve your child in any conflicts with the other parent.

For help with your custody matters, call the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC at (703) 443-4762 or visit https://www.ldurstlaw.com/contact-ashburn-attorney.html to schedule a consultation.

06/27/2023

DIVORCE WITH LESS CONFLICT

Do you believe it is possible to divorce with less conflict? Yes, divorces are combative most of the time. However, it is possible to divorce with a focus on moving forward, rather than getting back at your spouse. Lessen the impact on your family by choosing a method for your divorce that reduces conflict. Call the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC at (703) 443-4762 or visit ldurstlaw.com to learn how you can divorce more peacefully.

Creating a better world requires a good dose of imagination for what is possible and commitment to creating that vision!

IACP’s members have the imagination and conviction that conflicts - even amid crisis - can be resolved more peacefully. IACP enables that vision to be collectively harnessed, grown and realized for families globally.

Sounds like another good reason for why IACP has been nominated for the Nobel Peace Prize!

06/22/2023

Contact the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC at (703) 443-4762 or visit ldurstlaw.com to learn how you can settle your divorce in a more peaceful manner.

06/20/2023

Contact the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC at (703) 443-4762 or visit ldurstlaw.com to find out how you can raise the kids you love with the ex you hate.

06/17/2023

From the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC to all the fathers who make their children a priority. Happy Father's Day!

06/14/2023

Schedule a consultation with the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC at (703) 443-4762 or visit ldurstlaw.com to learn how you can prioritize your kids in your divorce.

06/06/2023

Contact the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC at (703) 443-4762 or https://www.ldurstlaw.com/contact-ashburn-attorney.html to schedule a consultation.

Even if your partner has filed in court, you both still can choose Collaborative Law as a viable option. By electing to work cooperatively and respectfully through the Collaborative Law process, you can explore solutions outside of the courtroom to reach a fair and durable resolution. It's never too late to choose a more constructive approach.

Visit www.collaborativelawdmv.com or tap the link in our bio to learn more about how the Collaborative Law process can benefit you and your family when facing separation and divorce.

06/01/2023

Call the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC at (703) 443-4762 or visit ldurstlaw.com to find out how we can help you identify the appropriate method to handle your divorce.

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05/25/2023

SO, YOU HAVE DECIDED TO GET A DIVORCE

Here are 5 tips on what to do next.
1) Get Informed - Consult with an attorney. It is important to know what your rights are as a spouse and a parent. You also need to understand what's involved in getting a divorce.
2) Take Action - Make a decision about the method you will use to obtain your divorce: litigation, mediation, collaborative divorce, or negotiations.
3) Get Organized - Obtain financial information such as bank/investment account statements and loan/mortgage balances etc.
4) Consider Your Living Arrangement - Will you move somewhere temporarily or continue living in the marital home?
5) Break the New - It's usually a good idea to talk with a counselor about how to break the new to your spouse and especially the children.

Contact the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC at (703) 443-4762 or
https://www.ldurstlaw.com/contact-ashburn-attorney.html for a consultation.

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Li-Shann Durst focuses on alternative dispute resolution methods to resolve divorce issues.

05/23/2023

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05/16/2023

MENTAL HEALTH SUPPORT WHILE GOING THROUGH DIVORCE

Are you getting a divorce and feeling mentally overwhelmed? Read the article below for 5 tips for taking care of your mental health during divorce. Also, consider getting a Collaborative Divorce which can include the assistance of a mental health expert. This process is also confidential. Yes! You can get mental health support while going through a divorce.

Call the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC at (703)443-4762 or visit ldurstlaw.com for a consultation today.

Going through a divorce can be a stressful and emotionally challenging experience. Here are some tips for taking care of your mental health during this time:

1. Seek support from friends, family, or a therapist who can provide a listening ear and help you process your emotions.
2. Make time for self-care activities, such as exercise, meditation, or taking a relaxing bath.
3. Stay organized by keeping track of important dates, appointments, and paperwork related to the divorce.
4. Take breaks from thinking about the divorce by engaging in hobbies or activities that bring you joy.
5. Avoid unhealthy coping mechanisms, such as excessive drinking or drug use, and prioritize getting enough sleep and eating a balanced diet.

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05/12/2023

Call the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC at (703) 443-4762 or visit ldurstlaw.com to learn more.

05/03/2023

Wondering if a Collaborative Divorce, Mediation, or Settlement Negotiations would work for your divorce? These alternative dispute resolution methods are our focus at the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC. Call us at 703.443.4762 or visit ldurstlaw.com to learn more.

04/30/2023

Call the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC at 703.443.4762 or visit ldurstlaw.com to learn how you can obtain a divorce without the usual combativeness couples face in court.

Collaborative Law can help you and your partner work toward a healthier future post-divorce as fairness and kindness can lay the foundation for more effective co-parenting.

Visit www.collaborativelawdmv.com or tap the to learn more about how the Collaborative Law process can benefit you and your family when facing separation and divorce.

04/25/2023

What Kinds Of Family Law Cases Are Mediated?
Any type of family law case may be mediated such as disagreements over custody, parenting time, child support, spousal support, allocation of debt, or the distribution of assets. Mediation is available whether or not the parents of minor children are married.
Contact the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC at (703) 443-4762 for assistance or visit ldurstlaw.com to learn more.

Mediators in Virginia have strict STANDARDS OF ETHICS AND PROFESSIONAL RESPONSIBILITY (https://www.vacourts.gov/courtadmin/aoc/djs/programs/drs/mediation/soe.pdf)

04/18/2023

For years, the legal system has recognized the need to deal with domestic relations issues such as custody and support differently than other legal issues. Some considered establishing family courts and other methods. If the courts recognize there is a need to deal with families differently, why don’t you consider dealing with your divorce differently?

Call the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC at (703) 443-4762 or visit ldurstlaw.com to learn more about alternatives to litigation such as the collaborative divorce method, settlement negotiations or mediation to handle your divorce.

04/12/2023

Do you know that most litigated cases settle outside of court? The same is true for divorces, and you can settle your divorce issues outside of court. Call the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC at (703) 443-4762 and find out how you can finalize your divorce without going through a costly trial.

The divorce process can be overwhelming, especially if your partner has already filed in court. But in the Collaborative Law divorce process, you don't have to go it alone.

Our collaborative approach can be used at any stage of the legal process, and we're here to help you and your family find a path forward.

Visit www.collaborativelawdmv.com or tap the to learn more about how the Collaborative Law process can benefit you and your family when facing separation and divorce.

04/04/2023

Worried about making informed decisions during a divorce?
Collaborative professionals can help you obtain the information you need to make empowered decisions for yourself and your children. More helpful information on all of the options available to you can be found here: https://www.ldurstlaw.com

04/04/2023

Keeping families out of court is my main objective. Call the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, PLLC to learn how to navigate your divorce without resorting to litigation.
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Families don't belong in Court, fighting it out against one another. IACP and its members empower families to respectfully find their own enduring, child focused, solutions in a way that fosters ongoing, positive, family relationships.

Work like this by our members is why we've been told IACP has been nominated for the Nobel Peace Prize! What would you prefer for your family - court or a process that supports you to resolve problems yourself?

03/30/2023

It was my pleasure helping you, and I am glad you are satisfied with the service you received.

03/28/2023

Collaborative divorce is intended to help the process be as painful as possible. With the help of professionals such as financial specialists, child specialists, divorce coaches, and therapists you and your spouse will be assisted on every matter in the divorce process as needed. Interested in knowing more? Book a consultation with our office today: https://www.ldurstlaw.com/contact-ashburn-attorney.html

03/23/2023

03/21/2023

It is my privilege to invest in the families in my community. Thank you for trusting me to walk alongside you in one of life's most challenging seasons.