06/03/2026
This story depicts who I am, I failed a hundred times because of my big trust to other people as well to people in authority like real estate developers but I never gave up since I know within my heart, I acted with the best intention and fortunately I learned how to value self-respect and self-perseverance.
I am not just a broker but I am a dreamer who envision to one day every loyal and faithful clients will see the value of I have done for them. Up to this point, the struggle is still very real but along the way I can pick up already the fruits of labor and seeing the smile of my clients' face is enough reason to continue no matter how heavy the circumstances.
He was sleeping in his car and washing dishes for minimum wage…
while his best friend was becoming one of the biggest movie stars on the planet.
Then a single bet changed everything.
In the late 1970s, Michael Blake arrived in Hollywood with nothing but a typewriter and a stubborn dream. Around 1981, he met a young actor named Kevin Costner. Neither of them had power. Or money. Or connections.
Just ambition.
In 1983, Blake wrote a small film called Stacy’s Knights. Costner starred in it.
The movie failed.
Their friendship didn’t.
Soon after, Costner’s career caught fire. Leading roles. Blockbusters. The kind of fame they had once talked about like it was a fantasy.
Most people would’ve drifted apart.
Costner didn’t.
He used his rising influence to get Blake into rooms with producers. He vouched for him. Put his own reputation on the line.
And every meeting went badly.
As Costner later admitted, “Every report that came back was that he pi**ed everybody off.”
Blake was angry. Frustrated. Convinced Hollywood was broken — that executives were fools and the system was rigged.
Costner saw something else.
One day he finally snapped. He grabbed Blake and shoved him against a wall.
“Then stop. If you hate scripts so much, quit writing them.”
It felt like the end.
A week later, Blake called. He had nowhere to stay. Could he crash on Costner’s couch?
Costner said yes.
For nearly two months, Blake slept there. He read bedtime stories to Costner’s daughter. He stayed up late writing. Every rejection, every humiliation — he poured it into a story.
Eventually he left Los Angeles.
He drifted east to Bisbee, Arizona. Washed dishes in a Chinese restaurant. Some nights he slept in his car.
But every night — he wrote.
He was working on a story about a wounded Civil War soldier who finds redemption among a Native American tribe. A Western. In an era when Hollywood insisted Westerns were dead. It was long. Expensive. Unfashionable.
No studio wanted it.
Costner and producer Jim Wilson believed in it anyway.
When Hollywood refused to finance the script, they made a different bet: turn it into a novel first.
Blake did.
Thirty publishers rejected it. One finally printed a small paperback run in 1988. It barely sold. When Blake asked about another printing, he was told to move on and write something else.
Most people would’ve quit.
Costner didn’t.
When he finally read the finished novel, he stayed up all night. By morning, he knew.
He called Blake.
“I’m turning this into a movie.”
Costner paid $75,000 of his own money to secure the rights. He hired Blake to adapt the screenplay. Then he made a decision that terrified Hollywood.
He would direct it himself.
He had never directed before.
The film was called Dances with Wolves.
Industry insiders mocked it as “Kevin’s Gate.” A three-hour Western? With subtitles in Lakota? Directed by a first-timer? They predicted disaster.
Production was grueling — brutal South Dakota weather, herds of buffalo, hundreds of horses, real wolves. When the budget ballooned, Costner invested $3 million of his own money to finish it.
On November 21, 1990, it premiered.
It became a cultural phenomenon.
The film grossed $424 million worldwide — the highest-grossing Western of its time.
At the 63rd Academy Awards, it received 12 nominations and won 7 Oscars.
Costner won Best Director.
The film won Best Picture.
And Michael Blake — the man who once slept in his car — stood on that stage in a tuxedo and won the Academy Award for Best Adapted Screenplay.
Years later, the Library of Congress preserved the film in the National Film Registry.
Michael Blake passed away in 2015. His novel sold millions.
But that isn’t the heart of the story.
The heart of the story is this:
He was rejected for years.
He burned bridges.
He washed dishes while his best friend became a superstar.
But he never stopped writing.
The difference between those who make it and those who almost did isn’t always talent.
Sometimes it’s simpler than that.
Sometimes it’s just refusing to quit — especially when quitting would be easier.
