14/08/2026
Hey, Intentional Parents! đź‘‹
​If you’ve noticed a bit of radio silence from me this August, here is my truth: I’ve been fully living the summer chaos.
​Between chasing the older kids around and navigating life 2 months postpartum with our newest little blessing, my days have been full, loud, and delightfully exhausting.
​Right now, as part of our summer tradition, we’re spending the week at Grandpa’s house. Watching my kids create memories with their grandfather has been a gentle reminder of something we often forget in modern parenting: It really does take a village.
​Allowing our children to spend quality time with grandparents and extended family isn't just about getting a break (though let's be honest, that's a huge perk!). It:
​Gives them a deeper sense of identity & roots. Hearing family stories builds resilience.
​Exposes them to different styles of love and wisdom. Grandparents have a special kind of patience that parents running on fumes sometimes struggle to find.
​Teaches them interdependence. They learn that love and safety exist outside the four walls of our immediate home. And they get to spend time with their aunties, uncles and cousins
​And speaking of self-care within the family... today, I did something just for ME.
​While Grandpa and the family loved on the kids, I slipped away to the spa for a manicure, pedicure, and a much-needed massage. Two months after bringing a new life into the world, my body needed to exhale.
​Remember: You cannot pour from an empty cup, and intentional parenting includes intentionally taking care of you.
​So, if you’ve been feeling guilty about leaning on family this summer or taking a moment to breathe—drop the guilt. Unapologetically embrace your roots and fill your own cup today. 💛
​👇 Drop a comment: How are you filling your cup this summer? And what's your favourite memory your kids have made with their grandparents so far?
