06/06/2024
DEAR HUSBAND,
4 TIMES YOUR WIFE NEEDS YOU MORE
We all know that Women are emotional creatures, they need special attention and to be handled with understanding as peculiar vessels.
But in certain times, they become even more emotional and thus require even more patience.
Below are few times she needs you as her husband closer than ever
1) WHEN SHE IS PREGNANT.
Haaaaaa
When a woman is pregnant, is not a small something oh,
she can become really problematic, permit me to put it that way)
From what she wants to do, how she wants to be touched, where she wants to be touched, what she wants to eat (from funny to weird cravings), to how she wants you to scratch her back in the middle of the night,when a woman is pregnant, it's not her fault, even she doesn't know why she acts that way.
Hormones and the changes ongoing in her affect her in ways beyond her control and helping,
In such a time you as her Husband will need to put on more
👉 Love
👉 Attention
👉 Care
👉 Patience
👉 Understanding.
If not, you will find yourself like some men insensitively saying to their pregnant wives "are you the first woman to be pregnant, your own is too much Joke"
Always be around your pregnant Wife physically and emotionally, clear your schedule to be around more,
Carrying the baby for the both of you is already putting stress on her, don't let her carry that burden alone.
It's so sad how some Men will abandon their pregnant wives at home and go drinking and clubbing with friends.
S*x and sexual activities are not to be neglected just because she is pregnant.
Still play with her.
Your sister coming over to help is nice, but she still wants your assistance than what five sisters will provide.
2) WHEN SHE IS ON HER ME**ES
From Mood swings that can swing in any direction, to breast tenderness, to unnecessary emotional displays, to the very physicality of the physical event she is experiencing (blood loss), to the cries and drama associated with the menstrual cramps,
Some Ladies handle this periods better than others.
As a Man, as your wife goes through that period monthly, she'll need you by her side, physically and otherwise, showing her love and care
Menstruation is not Leprosy.
Stop avoiding her because she is menstruating, that's so 1960.
Some Women even crave sexual contact when menstruating.
3) WHEN SHE IS BEREAVED
A Woman handles the loss of a loved one differently from a Man. She will cry uncontrollably, she will weep like a little girl.
As a Man you may think she is being a drama queen, you may feel irritated or angry, but remember, she is not you, and you are not her.
Let her cry, give her the space and your permission to grieve, don't tell her to stop crying, give her a shoulder to cry on, it will make her feel you are closer to her.
Be understanding, let her know you feel her pain, show empathy especially when she loses someone close to her.
Don't let personal activities make you absent from her in such times, except it is way way beyond your control.
4) WHEN SHE IS UNDER PRESSURE.
Pressure can come from her work place, family, the Kids, pressure from delay in taking in/getting pregnant, from her emotions
When a woman is under pressure, she can suffer a partial complete emotional melt down except someone is there to guide her, assure her, lend her a shoulder to vent and rely on.
She is Married, let her nor face her battles alone.
When she's under pressure, and she's complaining, crying, falling sick, please assure her, calm her down, take some duties off her, let her sleep and rest more.
Take her out, pamper her.
Help her relax.. And see how she'll bounce back stronger and better for you.
If you allow pressure continuously eat at your wife, she'll age quick, she'll be 28 and looking 42.
She'll become more unloving and the home will become unbearable for everybody.
Help yourself by helping her.
God brought her to be a help meet for you.
Make the Job easy for her.
