Evolve Family Mediation

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Evolve Family Mediation Founded by Rebekah Gershuny, family lawyer for over 20 years. Evolve Family Mediation is a bespoke f Meetings can also be arranged in central London.

Evolve Family Mediation is a bespoke family mediation service. Rebekah Gershuny, its founder, is committed to helping people going through divorce or separation to find constructive solutions to reach agreements, and to avoid going to court. Rebekah will work closely with you to help you design solutions that are based on your and your family’s circumstances and needs. Experienced Mediator

Rebekah Gershuny is a very experienced family lawyer and accredited mediator, and has been helping people for more than 20 years sort out their separation or divorce. Rebekah is a Consultant in the prestigious family law department of Freemans Solicitors. Rebekah’s experience as a family Lawyer means that she can help find solutions that can be made legally binding when approved by the court, and which are fair and practicable. Holistic Approach

Evolve Family Mediation is committed to putting you and your children at the centre of what we do. We will work closely with you to address all of the issues that you have whether these are emotional, practical, financial or child related. In mediation, our mediator facilitates discussions that you may be finding difficult to have following the breakdown of your relationship: you have your say and you set the agenda. Our mediator will help you explore all of the options, and to reach a long lasting settlement. Cost effective

At Evolve Family Mediation we are aware that divorce and separation can be a stressful time for the family finances and we offer competitive fees including a discounted rate for people on low incomes and limited disposable capital. Location

Evolve Family Mediation’s office is located in central Watford, within a few minutes walk of Watford Junction Station. Flexible

We recognise that it can be difficult to take time off work, and we therefore offer evening appointments, and initial appointments by Skype.

Introducing a new partner Managing the introduction of a new partner to a child after separating may be daunting. Any ne...
11/07/2022

Introducing a new partner

Managing the introduction of a new partner to a child after separating may be daunting. Any new introductions should be handled sensitively and in a manner that focuses on how children will cope with this new transition.

Rather than rushing ahead with the meeting, it is important to discuss with your former partner how you will manage the new introduction.

It is important to remember that children may need more time than you before such an introduction is made. Your new partner may also have children and that is another situation you should consider.

The best advice is to seek agreement on a plan of action with the other parent, as not involving them may lead to tension as well as a breakdown in trust. If the other parent is seeking to introduce their new partner, always try to keep an open mind.

For more information and support, please visit:
https://www.evolvefamilymediation.co.uk

Evolve Family Mediation is a bespoke family mediation service based in Watford, Hertfordshire. We are committed to putting you and your children first.

How effective co-parenting could look Separating or going through a divorce is one of life’s most challenging times. At...
07/07/2022

How effective co-parenting could look

Separating or going through a divorce is one of life’s most challenging times. Attempting to have a healthy co-parenting relationship with your former partner can be difficult once you have decided to separate.

An effective co-parenting relationship is when both parents are consistent and can come to an agreement regarding behaviour and discipline, bedtimes, playtime and household chores. However, if your parenting styles were different before you separated, it is unlikely that you will be on the same page straight away.

It is important not to get into parenting debates over every decision. If you can trust that both of you are devoted to raising your kids in a healthy and supportive environment, you should try to avoid micromanaging each other’s day-to-day parenting style.

If you have difficulties in your co-parenting relationship with your former partner, family mediation can be of real benefit.

For more information and support, please visit:
https://www.evolvefamilymediation.co.uk
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Evolve Family Mediation is a bespoke family mediation service based in Watford, Hertfordshire. We are committed to putting you and your children first.

Child behaviour after divorce After a separation or divorce, it is common for children to display behavioural changes. E...
06/07/2022

Child behaviour after divorce

After a separation or divorce, it is common for children to display behavioural changes. Even under the best circumstances, a child’s behaviour and emotions may change frequently.

Depending on a child's age and other factors, they may not always understand why their parents are separating, resulting in emotions that may manifest in behavioural changes.

If possible, you should try keep an active dialogue going with your co-parent regarding behavioural changes. Recognising your child's different reactions to various situations is essential for providing them with the right help and support.

Communicating with your child and allowing them to speak freely about their feelings, can help them better understand that their behaviour may be tied to their emotions.

A family mediator can help you to communicate about any issues that you have of concern about your child if you are finding it difficult to speak to your co-parent. In appropriate circumstances your child can also be included in the mediation process giving them the opportunity to speak confidentially to an independent and neutral third party. Feedback from that meeting can help you to put together a parenting plan that best meets their needs and concerns.

For more information and support, please visit:
https://www.evolvefamilymediation.co.uk

Evolve Family Mediation is a bespoke family mediation service based in Watford, Hertfordshire. We are committed to putting you and your children first.

How to manage handovers and communication with your co-parent‘Handovers’ are when children are picked up from or dropped...
05/07/2022

How to manage handovers and communication with your co-parent

‘Handovers’ are when children are picked up from or dropped off to another co-parent. They may be one of the few times that you come face-to-face with your former partner, meaning that there is the potential for an uncomfortable situation to arise.

For your children, a handover can represent tension or conflict.

A parenting diary can be a straightforward way to ease communication between the two of you. The diary usually includes all the parenting issues that need communicating such as behaviour, school information, medical updates and bedtime routines etc. Passing the diary back and forth at the time of handover can help the situation run smoothly.

Developing a happy and relaxed handover is a process, not a success or a failure situation. If a handover is fraught with tension, put yourself in your child's shoes:-

How does it look to them?
How will they look back on it when they are older?
Will they be able to say, that even though you are separating you put their needs and feelings at the forefront of your actions?

Handovers are not easy, but making them easy for your children will have a significant positive impact on their lives.

In mediation you can discuss how to handle handovers as well as all other issues relating to how you co-parent your children through, and after your separation.

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Family separation can be a daunting process because there is an element of the unknown. When things are unknown, we ofte...
16/06/2022

Family separation can be a daunting process because there is an element of the unknown. When things are unknown, we often do not know how we will cope or respond.
It is important that once the decision has been made to separate, you plan on how you will aim to navigate this journey by seeking further information and advice.
Consider putting in place a support team who will be on hand to offer advice, such as family or friends, a family mediator and potentially a therapist.
With a team in place, you are likely to feel much stronger and prepared when moving forward.
As a family mediator, I can help recommend other professional advisers who will complement your aims and priorities.
It is important to seek information about all your options, spending time researching and where appropriate, sharing information with your separated partner.
For more information or support, please visit:
https://www.evolvefamilymediation.co.uk

Evolve Family Mediation is a bespoke family mediation service based in Watford, Hertfordshire. We are committed to putting you and your children first.

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