Wells Family Mediation

Wells Family Mediation At Wells Family Mediation we assist couples to reach their own decisions and proposals for moving on – tailor-made by them for their family.

When couples divorce or separate, decisions need to be made about property, finances and children. Family Mediation enables couples to make practical arrangements for their own future, avoiding costly and stressful legal disputes. We understand that it can be difficult to find the time to meet with a mediator therefore to make the process easier, we are also available to see clients up until 8pm during the week and on Saturday mornings at the weekends.

🎒 Making back-to-school work for everyoneA new school year often brings new routines - different drop-off times, after-s...
31/08/2026

🎒 Making back-to-school work for everyone

A new school year often brings new routines - different drop-off times, after-school clubs, homework, childcare and plenty of things that need remembering!

For separated parents, even arrangements that have worked well in the past can suddenly need adjusting.

And that’s completely normal.

Mediation isn’t only for couples going through a separation or divorce. You can return to mediation at any time if circumstances change or you need help talking through new arrangements.

A mediator can help you have a calm, constructive conversation about what’s working, what isn’t and what might make family life easier, while keeping your children’s needs at the heart of the discussion.

Because parenting arrangements don’t have to be permanent. They can grow and adapt as your children do.

If back-to-school routines are proving difficult to agree, Wells Family Mediation is here to help you find a way forward.

Get in touch to find out more.

Millions of unmarried couples could receive stronger legal rights, but what does this mean for families today?The Govern...
06/07/2026

Millions of unmarried couples could receive stronger legal rights, but what does this mean for families today?

The Government has announced plans to strengthen the legal rights of unmarried couples, recognising that family life has changed significantly over the past few decades. With more than 3.5 million cohabiting couples in the UK, it’s a conversation that is long overdue.

At Wells Family Mediation, we welcome any discussion that helps bring greater clarity and fairness to separating families. However, it’s equally important to understand what has, and hasn’t changed.

The law hasn’t changed… yet.

The recent announcement is the launch of a consultation, not new legislation.

That means unmarried couples do not currently have the same legal rights as married couples or those in a civil partnership if their relationship ends or one partner dies.

Despite what many people believe, there is still no such thing as a “common law marriage” in England and Wales.

It’s something we regularly find ourselves explaining to clients, often at a point when they are already navigating an emotional separation.

Why is this important?

Many couples buy homes together, raise children and build lives together without ever marrying.

If that relationship breaks down, the legal position can come as a real shock.

Unlike divorce, there isn’t a straightforward legal framework for dividing finances simply because you’ve lived together for many years. Issues around property, finances and future arrangements can quickly become complicated.

The Government is consulting on reforms that could provide greater financial protection for cohabiting couples in the future, alongside stronger protection for bereaved partners and survivors of domestic abuse.

If introduced, these changes would represent one of the biggest reforms to family law in a generation.

So what should couples do now?

Until any law changes, the current legal position remains exactly the same.

If you’re living together but aren’t married or in a civil partnership, now is a good time to review your arrangements.

That might include:

• Understanding how your home is legally owned.
• Making or updating a Will.
• Considering a Cohabitation Agreement.
• Seeking advice early if your relationship is coming to an end.

Where mediation can help

Legal rights are only one part of separation.

Whether you’re married or unmarried, mediation provides a safe, constructive space to have conversations about children, finances and future arrangements without immediately resorting to court.

Every family is different, and every separation deserves an approach that focuses on communication, clarity and finding practical solutions that work for everyone involved.

As the law evolves, we’ll continue to keep families informed. In the meantime, don’t assume that living together automatically gives you the same legal protection as marriage.

If you’re unsure about your position or would like to understand your options, we’re always happy to talk.

13/06/2026

🎉 Congratulations Helen! 🎉

We are incredibly proud to share that our Partner and Senior Family Mediator, Helen Adam, has been awarded an OBE in The King’s Birthday Honours List for services to Families, Children and Young People.

Helen’s passion for helping families navigate change and her tireless commitment to ensuring children’s voices and needs are considered have made a real difference to countless lives.

This honour is a wonderful recognition of the dedication, care and leadership Helen brings to her work every day.

From all of us at Wells Family Mediation, congratulations Helen on this truly well-deserved achievement.

08/06/2026

Going through a separation or divorce?

If you have children under the age of 18, you could be eligible for the Government’s Family Mediation Voucher Scheme, which provides up to £500 towards the cost of mediation.

Mediation can help you have constructive conversations about arrangements for your children, helping you move forward without the stress, cost and uncertainty of court proceedings.

The voucher is available to eligible families and can make those first steps towards an agreement more affordable.

Get in touch with our team today to find out whether you qualify and how mediation could help your family.

☎️ 01892 506906

Co-parenting is about more than a schedule.It's not just about where the children stay. It's also about:School eventsDen...
28/05/2026

Co-parenting is about more than a schedule.

It's not just about where the children stay. It's also about:
School events
Dentist appointments
Clubs and activities
Passports and important documents
Birthdays and special occasions

These everyday responsibilities can become a source of stress if expectations aren't clear.

Having open conversations and practical agreements can make co-parenting smoother for everyone, especially the children.

Family mediation can help parents work through these details together and create arrangements that work in real life, not just on paper.

Not every disagreement needs a court.Sometimes, families simply need the space to talk things through differently.At Wel...
19/05/2026

Not every disagreement needs a court.

Sometimes, families simply need the space to talk things through differently.

At Wells Family Mediation, we often work with people who aren’t struggling to care about their children or family, they’re struggling to communicate while emotions are high, routines are changing, or life feels uncertain.

Mediation creates a calmer space to:
• discuss child arrangements
• navigate changes in circumstances
• work through financial discussions
• make decisions together, not against each other

Because finding a way forward doesn’t always start with conflict.
Sometimes it starts with a conversation.

It's not just the humans who need a plan. 🐾New research from Amicable found that half of all separating couples (50%) ha...
14/05/2026

It's not just the humans who need a plan. 🐾

New research from Amicable found that half of all separating couples (50%) have to negotiate arrangements for their pets, and a quarter of those pets will split their time between both homes.

Separation touches every part of family life. The big things and the small ones. The finances, the house, the children, and yes, the pets.

That's exactly why having the right support matters. Mediation gives couples the space to work through all of it.

Whatever your family looks like, we can help.

Get in touch if you'd like to find out more.
01892 506906
www.wellsfamilymediation.co.uk

10/05/2026

Last month we shared the good news that the government-funded family mediation voucher scheme being extended for another year…

It doesn’t matter your age, relationship type, or background - whether you’re an older couple, a younger family, or a same s*x couple, you may still be eligible.

And did you know the scheme isn’t just for couples at the very start of separation?

If arrangements for your children need revisiting later in life due to changing circumstances, you may still be eligible for up to £500 towards family mediation - provided the voucher hasn’t been used previously for your case.

✔️ For child-related mediation
✔️ Inclusive of all family types
✔️ Designed to help families avoid court where possible

Many families return to mediation years later as work, living arrangements, and children’s needs evolve.

Get in touch if you’d like to find out more.

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Tunbridge Wells
TN11NU

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