16/10/2026
Out with the dogs at 7am this morning. Both of them found the only puddle in the field and lay in it.
Met an older chap I see on most walks. Spaniel. Flat cap. Always has a view on something.
This week's view?
"I'm leaving the lot to the dog. My son can whistle for it."
He was half joking. Only half.
They've fallen out. Haven't spoken in a couple of years.
Here's what most people don't realise.
In England and Wales, you can leave your estate to whoever you like. But certain people, including children, spouses and long-term partners, can ask the court for a share if they feel they weren't reasonably provided for.
And people are doing it more.
Disputed probate cases filed at the High Court hit 1,217 in 2025, up nearly 13% on the year before. And that's only the ones that reach the High Court.
Cutting someone out doesn't always close the door. Sometimes it opens one.
If you're going to leave someone out, or leave them less, the reasons matter. Writing them down clearly, at the time, and getting proper advice makes a challenge much harder to win.
Or, you know. Ring your son.
I didn't say that bit out loud. Thought it, though.
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