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29/05/2026

What are the key differences between co-parenting and parallel parenting? ✋

In this clip, Divorce Coach Tom Nash explains why traditional co-parenting isn’t always the healthiest or most realistic option after separation - and how, in some cases, it can actually create more conflict rather than less.

Parallel parenting offers an alternative approach. Instead of constant communication and shared decision-making, it allows parents to reduce contact, lower expectations of one another, and focus on creating stability within their own households.

For many families, this can mean less tension, fewer triggers, and a calmer environment for everyone involved, especially the children.

Read more here about parallel parenting, tips to make it work and how it differs from co-parenting 👉 https://bit.ly/4er25BT

Telling your children you’re getting divorced is one of the hardest conversations you’ll have. There’s no perfect way to...
26/05/2026

Telling your children you’re getting divorced is one of the hardest conversations you’ll have.

There’s no perfect way to do it, and it’s normal to worry about saying the wrong thing or how they’ll react. But how you handle that first conversation can really shape how they process what’s happening.

The good news is, there are ways to approach it that can help your children feel supported, reassured, and safe. 🙏

In this blog, we share practical tips to help you navigate that conversation with care.

Read more here 👉 https://bit.ly/4elfo6U

22/05/2026

A ‘no-split divorce’ happens when couples decide to legally end their marriage but cannot yet move out of the family home.

Many people feel that this arrangement will lessen the impact on their children. The thinking is usually that if everything looks the same (the same home, the same routines, the same day-to-day life) it will make the transition easier for them.

However, children are often far more perceptive than we give them credit for. They are likely to sense the shift in atmosphere and understand that their parents’ relationship has changed. In some cases, this can create more confusion and tension than if the situation were addressed openly. 👐

In reality, it is often healthier for children when the change is acknowledged and managed clearly. Confronting the situation allows everyone to begin adjusting to a new routine sooner rather than later, which can help provide stability in the long run.

Read more about no-split divorce 👉 https://bit.ly/4epXobw

19/05/2026

A ‘no-split divorce’ happens when couples decide to legally end their marriage but can’t actually move out of the family home. 🏠

Maybe neither partner can afford to buy the other out, or living on one income just isn’t possible at that time. They separate emotionally and practically, sometimes even starting the divorce process, but still stay under the same roof.

For some it’s just a few weeks but for others it could last months, even a year.

But it’s not a long-term solution. Living together after your marriage has ended can cause serious strain, increase stress and upset, and blur the lines between being married and separated - impacting your ongoing relationship with your ex. Sometimes the only way forward is to truly create space if and when you can…

Read more about a no-split divorce 👉https://www.stowefamilylaw.co.uk/stowe-support/does-living-together-apart-work/

Going through a divorce is hard enough, without feeling judged by other people too. Whether it’s questions, opinions, or...
16/05/2026

Going through a divorce is hard enough, without feeling judged by other people too.

Whether it’s questions, opinions, or assumptions, dealing with what others think can add another layer of pressure at an already emotional time. But the reality is, those reactions often say more about them than they do about you.

In this blog, we share some practical ways to handle judgement and set boundaries with those around you.

Read more here 👉 https://bit.ly/4lKlezd

Loneliness after divorce is more common than people realise. When a relationship ends, it’s not just the person you lose...
14/05/2026

Loneliness after divorce is more common than people realise.

When a relationship ends, it’s not just the person you lose - it’s the routines, the shared moments, and the sense of familiarity. That can leave a real gap.

The good news is that this stage doesn’t last forever, and there are ways to start feeling like yourself again.

We’ve shared 9 practical tips in this blog to help you through it. Read more here 👉 https://bit.ly/3Tiscz8

At night, behind every window, there’s a story unfolding that we may never see.✨ He's just filed for divorce✨ They're ju...
11/05/2026

At night, behind every window, there’s a story unfolding that we may never see.

✨ He's just filed for divorce
✨ They're just starting the adoption process
✨ He’s scrolling through old photos, missing the life he had
✨ She's just been for her first IVF appointment

Family struggles often happen in silence, but the weight is heavy.

💬 It's Mental Health Awareness Week. Be kind. You never know what someone is carrying.

For advice on how to prioritise your wellbeing during a break-up or divorce, read more here 👉 https://www.stowefamilylaw.co.uk/stowe-support/mental-health-wellbeing-during-divorce/

𝐖𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐮𝐩 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐝𝐢𝐯𝐨𝐫𝐜𝐞? 🕐The average divorce takes 9-12 months. Whilst it's not possible to cut corners, there ar...
09/05/2026

𝐖𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐮𝐩 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐝𝐢𝐯𝐨𝐫𝐜𝐞? 🕐

The average divorce takes 9-12 months. Whilst it's not possible to cut corners, there are a few things you can do to make sure things run as smoothly as possible and minimise delays along the way:

👉 Share your marriage certificate and details about your wedding with your solicitor as soon as you can - it helps get things moving quickly.

👉 Try to complete and send back any paperwork promptly so your solicitor can keep the process on track.

👉 If possible, apply online - it’s often much quicker than paper applications, and in some cases the court has processed them within just a day.

👉 Take a moment to check over your forms carefully. Even small mistakes can cause delays if papers need to be resubmitted.

👉 Where you can, agree on money and childcare arrangements early - it makes the whole process smoother and avoids hold-ups.

📖 Read more about how long it typically takes to get divorced in the UK https://www.stowefamilylaw.co.uk/family-law/divorce/how-long-does-divorce-take-uk/

07/05/2026

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗵𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗻𝘀 𝗶𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗲𝘅-𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗻𝗲𝗿 𝗿𝗲𝗳𝘂𝘀𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗿𝗶𝗯𝘂𝘁𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝗼𝘂𝘀𝗲𝗵𝗼𝗹𝗱 𝗯𝗶𝗹𝗹𝘀?💲

Many people going through divorce find themselves in a situation where their partner refuses to contribute (or isn’t contributing enough) towards the household outgoings, even though the property still belongs to them both.

🏡 Liza explains that it’s important to remember you do have options. One of these may be an application for spousal maintenance, which can require your ex-partner to contribute a set amount towards the household costs each month.

Read more about spousal maintenance here 👉 https://www.stowefamilylaw.co.uk/family-law/divorce/what-is-spousal-maintenance-uk/

04/05/2026

Spousal maintenance is when one spouse agrees, or is ordered by the court, to make regular monthly payments to the other following a divorce. It’s designed to support the financially weaker party as they adjust to their new financial circumstances.

Working out spousal maintenance isn’t always straightforward. There’s no ‘one-size-fits-all’ approach, and each case depends on its own set of factors.

🎥 Senior Associate Zanariah Webster explains what the courts take into account when making these decisions.

Read more about what spousal maintenance is and how it works here 👉 https://www.stowefamilylaw.co.uk/family-law/divorce/what-is-spousal-maintenance-uk/

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