05/05/2026
OFTEN TIMES... PEOPLE NEGLECT THIS SIGNS I M ABOUT TO MENTION....WHILE ITS EARLY TO WALK OUT OR STAY FOR YOUR OWN CHOICE.
NUMBER ONE IS....
DATING SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T HAVE A VISION OR DREAM OF BRCOMING GREAT. This SIGNS you know it by how they talk, things they do and the lifestyle they live will tell better..
NUMBER TWO...
NO SIGN OF COMMITTMENT.
Yes any body which is not committed to you doesn't have you completely in mind.thry are just using you to while away time. How will you know..or the signs to show... they don't have your interest at hand..nor share secrets or deep things with you.. about their personal life.they don't take your calls serious. No committed to your purpose nor your needs as a partner.
NUMBER THREE..
MAMAS BOY/ GIRL TYPE
It's very hard for this type to take decisions on their own without their mamas approve of it. And if the mama is this type that doesn't like your kind of person.. its a sign that such dating might not lead to marriage. They will convince their son or daughter that it won't work. And is the person is this mama boy or girl.. its over.. you will find your years of waiting wasted for nothing. The excuses will be my parent doesn't want us to get married when he or she know that marriage is personal choice.
NUMBER FOUR
AGE FACTOR.... Normally age shouldn't be a factor or barrier to marriage choice as long as its God's choice. God always do his own thing when all hope is lost.
Now.. many people see age as a factor to consider before marriage... medically it is ... why because of birth outside that...age is just a number when it comes to Love. God always make his own thing beautiful at his own time. But here is the truth..as a lady if you are dating a guy you are older than.. and he havt made any step to settle down... he might not be serious to because the intention is not to get married. Maybe he is benefiting something either sxx, money or material things..he will keep cool until he is ready to make that work to find who he will settle with.. someone much younger.. but if he want to marry the someone older.. its also a good step that is if he wasn't discouraged by people.
As a lady don't date for long time when you know your age. If anyone comes that is ready and you love the person..you have to marry.. because men's life is different from women.. but if you have decided to stay...be sure your partner also have thesame mindset...because many were jilted afterwards..the signs has been there but just that you choose not to see it.
NUMBER FIVE..
ENTITLEMENT AND DEPENDENCY FACTOR.
This is another sign to consider. Some people. Its situation that makes them start dating who they are not really in love with.
They just want who will be there for them whenever they need something! They will give you what you want and collect what they want. But they never love nor have you in mind to spend their life forever with such person. The other person will think its love that will lead to marriage but its not.. just likeness, when a woman or man start liking someone ...thats not love but crush. They are crushing on the person...that is why. Sometimes after meeting, they move on.. no attachment no affection, no love. That is why its necessary to define your relationship..know the type of relationship you are in so that ..at the end you are not jilted or your emotions toil with...
This type of dependency is like entitlement. Like believing as long as they are in one's life... anything they want they get.
Don't be ignorant...some when they are satisfied with their....intention they break the ice. .How do you know this types
Those who train... their partners to school, university, handwork or given employment. Let them achieve what they want. And that is it.. they will say i don't love you.. but you can't blame them totally because you refuse to do the needful.. which is .marriage first before..entitlement.. training someone before marriage is not totally good ideas. Majority always look for who suit them afterwards. So be wise. I m not staying you shouldt train anyone you love.. but be sure the person loves you back too. I hope many will learn....because...you can only give what you have. If people say better opportunity. They go ..move ahead because everyone wants a better opportunity in life. Thanks for reading i hope yours will not be any here. God bless you.
Pst Mrs Becky Idemudia
Angelic soul
Sole writer.
