05/23/2026
There’s something deeply disappointing about watching women tear down other women — especially in spaces that were created to support and empower mothers.
Just over a year ago, whilst in labour with my daughter, I became the topic of discussion in a moms group after someone asked for recommendations for a lawyer “willing to stand up to me.” What followed included false allegations about me and my practice, personal attacks, and even comments about my appearance. The critcism even extended to my office decor.
Apparently, displaying a quote from the Honourable Ruth Bader Ginsburg stating, “Women belong in all places where decisions are being made,” a “boss lady” nameplate, and a Rupi Kaur poem about women learning their worth was considered offensive, overwhelming, or too much.
But here’s the thing — I stand by every single one of those pieces.
As a young mother of two who continued advocating for clients throughout both pregnancies instead of taking maternity leave, I know exactly how difficult it can be to exist as a woman in professional spaces. I also know the scrutiny that comes with being outspoken, ambitious, and unapologetically confident.
The comments didn’t upset me. I know who I am. I know what I stand for. I know the work I quietly do behind the scenes for clients, families, women, fathers, and children. I do not need validation from strangers on the internet to continue doing meaningful work.
But what did stick with me was this:
We need to do better teaching our children — not just our daughters, but our sons too — that powerful women are not something to mock, fear, or diminish.
As an aunt to four incredible nieces, a mother raising a son who I hope grows into a man who respects and uplifts women, and a feisty one-year-old daughter who is absolutely going to move mountains someday, I will proudly continue displaying every “boss bitch” quote in my office.
Because yes — I am a boss bitch.
And so is every single client who walks through these doors terrified, anxious, heartbroken, and trying to rebuild their life anyway.
To all the strong women, resilient mothers, survivors, professionals, caregivers, and fighters out there:
Tomlinson Law sees you.
Tomlinson Law supports you.
And Tomlinson Law will always make space for women to take up room unapologetically.