12/03/2024
In a world where approximately half of all marriages end in divorce, this story of a 100 year old veteran's marriage stands as a beautiful counterpoint.
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It was his daughter Joanne Schoscheim who introduced her to her now fiancee in 2021.
"She gave my dad such joy," Joanne said of Jeanne. "I didn’t want her to be lonely."
But it wasn't love at first sight.
Love at second sight
After Thelma's death, Harold wasn't interested in other women and barely noticed Jeanne.
"I didn’t even look at her. I didn't even talk to her," he said.
"I looked at him. He looked at me," Jeanne said, but "it was like nothing".
Even so, Harold's buddy Stanley Eisenberg took them to dinner the next night. He wanted to see who his friend had dismissed.
It was love at second sight.
"I had never seen him lit up like that," Stanley said.
Harold couldn't talk or eat, and that's not like him.
"I said, 'You're in love,'" Stanley said. "He said, 'I don't know. I've never had these feelings before.'"
World War II veteran Harold Terens, 100, right, and Jeanne Swerlin, 96 snuggle on the couch during an interview
The couple kiss, dance and hold hands like high school sweethearts. (AP Photo: Wilfredo Lee)
fter that date, Jeanne said Harold "didn't give me a chance" to turn him down. At 94, she also was in love.
"She got hysterical" with delight, he said.
"I thought I'd have to help him up, but he's so macho," she said.
The couple and their families will head to Paris in late May, where Harold and a handful of surviving World War II veterans will be honoured. Of the 16 million American World War II veterans, only 120,000 remain, the government says.
It will be Harold's fourth D-Day celebration in France. He received a medal from President Emmanuel Macron five years ago.
The families then will travel to the town of Carentan-les-Marais, where the couple plan to be married on June 8 by Mayor Jean-Pierre Lhonneur in a chapel built in the 1600s.
The mayor said because of the American sacrifice on D-Day, more US flags fly in the area than French.
"Normandy is the 51st state," he said.
He explained legally he is only allowed to marry town residents, but he thinks the local prosecutor will let him make an exception.
"It will be a pleasure for us," the mayor said.
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Harold Terens and his fiancee Jeanne Swerlin might be in their 100s and 90s but the couple kiss and hold hands like high school sweethearts.