29/08/2026
Child support should be about supporting children. But recent Australian reporting has highlighted how, in some separated families, it can also be used as a tool of financial pressure and control.
An ABC investigation published this month reported that more than half of parents using Private Collect are underpaid, while one in four receives no child support at all in a given year. Australia also has around $1.9 billion in unpaid child support debt.
The behaviours described go beyond simply missing a payment. They can include delaying tax returns, understating income, manipulating self-employment arrangements, threatening a parent who seeks collection, or using parenting arrangements as leverage.
For some families, this can become another way of maintaining control long after a relationship has ended.
For family law practitioners, it is an important reminder to look at the broader financial picture. Child support, parenting arrangements, property settlements and patterns of coercive behaviour do not always exist in isolation.
If you are concerned that child support or financial arrangements are being used to pressure or control you following separation, obtaining clear legal advice can help you understand your options.
Read the ABC article: abc.net.au/news/2026-08-14/child-support-system-financial-abuse-single-mothers/107026886
Year after year, the government slaps Leah with a family tax debt based on child support that her ex-partner has not paid.