22/04/2026
A very well deserved shout out:
https://vt.tiktok.com/ZS9RyJ8Ls/
Every now and then, we see a moment online that cuts through the noise, a perpetrator demonstrating real, grounded remorse for the harm they’ve caused.
Not excuses. Not minimisation. Not performative apologies.
Actual accountability.
For victim‑survivors, remorse is not about words. It’s about a perpetrator recognising the pattern of their behaviour, naming the impact, and committing to change in a way that is consistent, transparent, and verifiable.
When someone steps up and owns their actions, it matters. It shows what is possible when responsibility replaces denial, when insight replaces defensiveness, and when accountability becomes the starting point, not the end point.
At DV LAWYER, we advocate fiercely for victim‑survivors, and we also recognise the importance of genuine behavioural change. Remorse alone is never enough, but it is a critical first step in breaking the cycle of coercive control and violence.
To those doing the real work, not the performative kind, your accountability contributes to safer futures for everyone.
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