21/10/2026
Your AVO does not mention contact. Your bail says no contact. So can you text her about the kids?
You are bound by both, at the same time. Neither one "wins". The stricter condition is the one that controls what you can safely do.
Here is what you need to know:
• An AVO only sets out what is prohibited under that order. It is not a permission slip, and your bail conditions operate independently
• If your bail says no contact, replying to a message can lead to arrest and revocation of bail, even if the AVO itself does not ban contact
• If she contacts you first, you still cannot safely reply. The protected person commits no offence by contacting you, but you can
• Verbal reassurance from police or from her does not change a written order. Only a court or an authorised bail authority can vary it
• During one weekend operation in August 2026, NSW Police ran 12,054 ADVO compliance checks and 1,497 bail compliance checks. Compliance is being actively checked
If your AVO and bail conditions say different things, do not guess. Apply to have them varied through the proper channels, and get advice before you act.
National Criminal Lawyers acts in AVO, bail and domestic violence matters across NSW.
Call 1800 CRIM LAW or visit nationalcriminallawyers.com.au for a free consultation.
Learn more: https://www.nationalcriminallawyers.com.au/my-avo-says-i-can-contact-her-but-my-bail-says-i-cant-which-one-wins/