04/09/2026
PART 1 ⚖️ Steve's been ordered to mediation next month and has never been in one. His lawyer told him to "just be open to settling." What actually happens in the room, and how does he avoid getting rolled?
In this week's Twomey Mailbag, we break down:
✅ What mediation actually is — the parties in conference with an independent third party mediating
✅ Who the mediator usually is: an ex-judge, a barrister, or a long-practising accredited specialist
✅ What happens in the joint session, where each side puts their pitch
✅ Why you're asked for your best case and the other side's risks
✅ How the parties split into separate rooms and offers get exchanged
✅ Why the plaintiff usually makes the first offer
✅ Why the whole process is confidential
✅ The single most important thing to sort out before you walk in
It's not about your lawyer knowing your walk away point. It's about you knowing it.
Watch the full episode on our YouTube channel: https://hubs.li/Q04wx9jQ0
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