Randall J. Borden, Attorney at Law

09/07/2025

⏳ Timelines shrink when both sides cooperate. Gather your financials early, stay responsive, and consider mediation to skip court backlogs.

Need a clear roadmap? Let Randall J. Borden • Family Law guide you every step.

07/07/2025

04/07/2025

Divorce doesn’t have to feel like a battlefield ⚖️
You can walk away with dignity — even when emotions run high.

Here’s what truly matters:
✅ Protect your peace, not your pride
✅ Keep your children away from the crossfire
✅ Mutual respect today means less stress tomorrow

You have a choice: fuel the drama or create space for healthy closure.

Need legal guidance to navigate your divorce with respect and clarity?
We’re here to help you protect your rights — and your peace of mind.

📩 DM us to schedule a confidential consultation.

30/06/2025

27/06/2025

🟢 Dos and Don'ts of Child Support Payments 🔴

Paying child support isn't just an obligation; it's an investment in your child's future. Understanding the correct steps can help avoid legal and personal issues.

✅ DO:

📌 Keep records of payments: Always maintain accurate records and save receipts of all payments.

📌 Notify changes promptly: If your income changes, immediately file for a modification of the child support amount.

📌 Make partial payments: Even if you can't afford the full amount, contribute partial payments. This demonstrates your commitment to fulfilling your responsibilities.

🚫 DON'T:

❗️ Quit your job intentionally: Reducing your income on purpose to lower payments is a serious violation and can result in legal consequences.

❗️ Withhold visitation: Never use child support payments as a reason to restrict the other parent's visitation rights.

❗️ Hide your location: Moving to another state or region doesn't free you from obligations; it only creates additional legal complications.

Acting responsibly regarding child support protects both your interests and your child's welfare. Remember: the law favors those who act honestly and in good faith.

👨‍⚖️ Always consult with a professional attorney for advice on family law and child support matters.

23/06/2025

🔍 Is Your Will Still Protecting What Matters Most?

A will isn’t something you write and forget — it’s a critical legal document that should reflect your current life, assets, and intentions. Yet, many people overlook the need to review and update it regularly.

💼 At Randall Borden Law, we remind our clients that an outdated will can be just as risky as having none at all.

Here are the Top 3 Reasons to Update Your Will Today:
1️⃣ Asset Changes — Bought a house? Opened investment accounts? Sold a business? Your estate plan should reflect these updates to avoid disputes or misallocation.
2️⃣ Legal Updates — State and federal laws around inheritance, taxes, and probate evolve. We ensure your will remains valid and strategically aligned with the latest legal standards.
3️⃣ Life Changes — Marriage, divorce, the birth of a child, or the loss of a loved one are emotional milestones that can shift your priorities. Your will should reflect those changes.

🛡️ Protect your legacy. Protect your loved ones.
Let us help you ensure your final wishes are clear, enforceable, and aligned with your current life situation.

📞 Schedule a private consultation today: (703) 385-8722
🌐 Or visit us online: rbordenlawfirm.com

20/06/2025

Can spousal support be waived completely in the Virginia prenuptial agreement

18/06/2025

📑 Wills & Trusts: What You Should Know (Before It’s Too Late)

No one likes to think about worst-case scenarios — but creating a will or trust isn’t about fear. It’s about clarity, protection, and peace of mind.

Whether you have a growing family, aging parents, or property to protect, estate planning helps you:
✅ Decide who inherits your assets
✅ Name guardians for your children
✅ Avoid court battles and unnecessary taxes
✅ Prevent family conflict before it begins
✅ Make sure your wishes are respected — no matter what happens

With professional legal guidance, you can avoid common mistakes that cause delays, confusion, or financial loss for your loved ones.

This isn’t just paperwork — it’s one of the most important acts of care you can offer your family.

📞 Need help? Call us for a consultation:
(703) 385-8722

Let’s make sure your legacy is protected and your future is secure.

13/06/2025

❗️What happens when one parent consistently fails to show up?

Parenting plans are meant to create structure, stability, and predictability — especially for children. But what if the other parent simply stops showing up for their scheduled visitation?

Missed pickups. Last-minute cancellations. Long gaps between visits.
It doesn’t just create logistical stress — it impacts the child emotionally and may undermine the entire custody agreement.

📌 Here’s what you should know if you’re dealing with this situation:

Document everything. Keep a written log of all missed visits, cancellations, and any communication around them.

Stay compliant yourself. Don’t violate your end of the agreement out of frustration — that can hurt your case later.

Talk to a family law attorney. Repeated no-shows may justify a request to modify the custody or visitation order.

Focus on the child’s best interests. Courts don’t expect perfection — but they do prioritize consistency, safety, and reliability.

⚖️ If a parent fails to meet their responsibilities, you may be able to:
– Request a modification of custody
– Limit or condition visitation
– Establish supervised visitation
– Or seek enforcement through the court

📞 You don’t have to figure this out alone.

Let’s talk about your options — and how to protect your child’s wellbeing when parenting plans break down.

09/06/2025

What types of divorce are there? Here’s a quick guide:

Divorce isn’t the end—it’s a new chapter. Here are the five main approaches:

Mutual Consent
When both spouses agree on all terms—property division, child custody, support—and file together without court disputes.

Contested Divorce
If there’s disagreement over assets, custody or support, the case goes to court for a judge to decide.

Simplified (Uncontested) Divorce
No minor children or shared property—minimal paperwork and a single court appearance.

Property Division Divorce
Spouses file separate claims to divide high-value assets according to individual shares.

Custody Determination Divorce
The court decides where children will live and establishes parenting time or visitation schedules.

Every situation is unique. Not sure which option fits your case? Send us a DM or click the link in our bio for personalized guidance and full legal support.

04/06/2025

“I want a divorce. But my spouse refuses. What now?”

This is one of the most common — and emotionally difficult — questions we hear.

Here’s the truth:
💡 In most U.S. states, you don’t need your spouse’s consent to file for divorce.

While mutual agreement can make the process smoother, the law allows one spouse to initiate proceedings, even if the other disagrees or refuses to participate.

Here’s what happens next:

🔹 You file a petition for divorce with the court
🔹 Your spouse is officially served with the paperwork
🔹 If they ignore it or don’t respond — the court can move forward without them
🔹 If they contest — the process may take longer, but it continues
🔹 If abuse or threats are involved — protections like restraining orders are available

⚖️ You don’t have to stay stuck because the other person is in denial. You have legal options, and you have the right to move forward.

📞 Need help understanding your rights? We’re here to guide you.

30/05/2025

Why should you hire a family law attorney?
Because in family law, what’s at stake isn’t just legal — it’s personal.

Here’s what you really get when you work with an experienced attorney:

🔹 Knowledge of family law
Divorce, custody, child support, visitation rights, property division — each has its own legal rules and exceptions. A qualified attorney knows how to interpret the law and how it applies to your situation.

🔹 Knowledge of procedural rules
Filing deadlines, court forms, jurisdictional issues — these aren’t just technicalities. One mistake could delay your case or hurt your chances in court. An attorney helps you avoid costly errors.

🔹 Relieves stress
Family disputes are emotionally draining. A good attorney takes on the legal pressure so you can focus on your well-being, your children, and your future.

🔹 Avoids conflict
The right legal guidance can de-escalate tense situations. Whether through negotiation, mediation, or litigation, a lawyer keeps the process focused and productive — not personal and chaotic.

🔹 Saves money
Yes, legal services cost money. But trying to fix a poorly handled case later often costs much more. A strategic attorney helps you avoid unnecessary court battles and protect your long-term financial interests.

📌 Bottom line: When emotions run high, you need clarity, experience, and a steady hand. That’s what a family law attorney provides.

📞 Need legal guidance? Let’s talk.