09/11/2026
In what light will your kids see you? Collaborative divorce allows separating parents to be people their kids see in a good light: working out tough issues honestly, civilly, and with respect.
In Florida, both parents may have a close, meaningful relationship with their child. Unless there are exceptional circumstances, you have a fundamental right to participate in major decisions that affect your child. This is known as “shared parental responsibility.”
Your child will go through different developmental stages. Needs for parental involvement evolve as the child develops, from a newborn to toddler to preschooler to school-age to pr***en to adolescent.
In each stage,
How will your child grow and thrive?
What will your child do?
What will your child say?
What will your child understand?
How will your child learn?
How will your child interact with others?
How will your child play?
How will your child get through (and survive!) puberty?
How will your child cope with your divorce?
As your child develops, the other parent’s and your contributions may adjust to foster:
* Speech and Language Skills
* Dressing Skills
* Fine and Visual Motor Skills
* Grooming Skills
* Social Skills
In the Collaborative Divorce process, through guidance of a neutral mental health facilitator to work with you on a parenting plan, direct your love constructively to meet challenges the parents and your child will face during each stage.
Serve your developing child’s best interests and well-being. Why fuel expensive, emotional, positional bargaining that hurts your child?
Find a Florida mental health professional at the Florida Psychological Association, Florida Mental Health Counselors Association (FMHCA), Mental Health Association of Central Florida, or Florida Counseling Association.
For a collaboratively trained mental health professional in Florida, visit the Florida Academy of Collaborative Professionals - FACP or local Florida regional collaborative practice group such as Central Florida Collaborative Divorce (formerly Collaborative Family Law Group of Central Florida.
Outside Florida, see resources at the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals (IACP).